Members winterguy125 Posted January 6, 2007 Members Share Posted January 6, 2007 My answer would also be the two men in soapsuds siggy. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Sweet_VeeVee24 Posted January 6, 2007 Members Share Posted January 6, 2007 If I had to choose my ideal lover this is what I would want: Someone to bring me to my knees everytime he kissed me. Having soft hands when he massages me; someone that would love to get in a nice bubble bath and wash my hair; whispering sweet words to me...My ideal lover would have to totally pamper me; and me do the same for him..... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Soapsuds Posted January 6, 2007 Members Share Posted January 6, 2007 Ok..I've said what kind of guy...now a few words...hehehe: 1. Most important...Must be honest That's a biggie with me. 2. Must be able to make me laugh. 3. Love tall guys..LOL...but my height is fine. 4. Love blond haired guys...lol..but hair really doesnt matter..lol 5. Must have some things in common..but not everything in common. 6. Oh, and I dont want a guy who says he aint worthy of me...pleaseeeeeeeeeeeeeeee.....LOL. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members SoapQueen89 Posted January 6, 2007 Members Share Posted January 6, 2007 Anything my 2 ex's were not. LOL! Here are few pre-requisites ~ Taller than 5'10 ~ Nice eyes (blue, green, hazel) ~ Dark hair - length of hair depends on the guy - some look hot in long hair - others not so much. ~ Facial hair is good - goatee or 5 day scruff ~ Bad boy image/tendencies but not one that I will need bail money for. Been there, done that. ~ Thick is good - no swimmer body types need apply. I was raised in farmland country, thick boys are all we have around here! LOL! ~ Strong, yet sweet and sensitive ~ Strong hands ~ Funny - someone who can make me laugh ~ Likes to talk - communication and conversation is a must ~ Stability - emotionally and financially ~ Likes cars - the classics preferably ~ Likes NASCAR but not obsessive ~ Likes to have a quiet evening at home with dinner and movie rather than going out. ~ Not a momma's boy - must be independent (job, career, own or rent own place, own car/truck) I've had 2 momma's boys and it's time someone took care of me for a change! LOL! ~ Responsible, dependable, honest, faithful ...etc. ~ Has their own life outside of being with me - too clingy, attention deprived or jealous types need not apply. ~ A MUST - Must be someone who likes dogs - I have 3 of them. ~ Someone who can adapt to country living - I'm not a city girl. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Queen_Nubia Posted January 6, 2007 Members Share Posted January 6, 2007 My ideal man?.....okay, Salt said it best... My man gives real loving that's why I call him Killer He's not a wham-bam-thank-you-ma'am, he's a thriller He takes his time and does everything right Knocks me out with one shot for the rest of the night He's a real smooth brother, never in a rush And he gives me goose pimples with every single touch Spends quality time with his kids when he can Secure in his manhood cuz he's a real man A lover and a fighter and he'll knock a knucker out Don't take him for a sucker cuz that's not what he's about Every time I need him, he always got my back Never disrespectful cuz his mama taught him that Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members KLN Posted January 6, 2007 Members Share Posted January 6, 2007 Your own talents, or stolen lyrics? LoL Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Queen_Nubia Posted January 6, 2007 Members Share Posted January 6, 2007 everyone knows S&P, silly. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members KLN Posted January 6, 2007 Members Share Posted January 6, 2007 I knew they were stolen! But, damn it, I was young in the days of Salt 'n Pepa! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Queen_Nubia Posted January 6, 2007 Members Share Posted January 6, 2007 Not stolen, I gave props to Salt. lol Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Sweet_VeeVee24 Posted January 6, 2007 Members Share Posted January 6, 2007 Have some more..Ideal lover to be: One that knows how to hit all the right spots One that can please me for hours and hours. A man that knows how to sweep me off my feet, and is spontaneous about it One that loves to tell me his dreams (the one's that put a smile on his face). A man that is true to his friends and his family...won't put up with a fake One that loves his mother, but doesn't run to her everytime things don't go his way One that likes to be adventurous.. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Soapsuds Posted January 6, 2007 Members Share Posted January 6, 2007 This guy also comes in mind as my ideal lover Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members mateo22 Posted January 6, 2007 Members Share Posted January 6, 2007 hmm, let's see... tall, dark and handsome...i know, i know, cliche.... older than 22 HONEST Edgy, a little bit of a rebel Puts not me first, but US first similar interests Bold Outspoken Sweeps me off my feet... ...ok, I'm finished dreamin' Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Ms. Walsh Posted January 7, 2007 Members Share Posted January 7, 2007 I like girls and guys, but I'm attracted to girls for a lot of different reasons than I am for guys. I'll do one for each and then qualities for both: Guys: --Height never made much of a difference. My current boyfriend is a lot taller than me (he's 6'2, I'm only 5'3), but my ex-fiance was only 5'7. --I usually like skinny guys --won't spend a lot of money on me. I feel really bad when a guy insists on paying for everything, especially when it's expensive --I tend to like "hippie" guys. Hygeine isn't super-important, but if they're averaging only 1 shower a week or less, that's really disgusting. --In terms of sex, I think my sex drive is a lot bigger than most females, so I guess I'd be willing to do more experimental stuff (nothing degrading though.) But yeah...I don't always want him on top. Girls: --I really don't like girls that are really skinny. I'm not thin, so I find it really awkward to be physical with someone who I could snap in half. --Someone who's not really girly. I'm not usually attracted to girls who are "butch", but I can't stand it when girls are obsessed with clothes, hair, make-up, and other material things. --No b!tches. I'm well-aware of how girls operate (since I am one myself ), and all the back-stabbing and gossiping is exhausting. It's bad enough that I have to live w/ 54 other girls, half of who pull the b!tchy crap all the time. --Someone who likes to kiss and hug. I guess it's good b/c girls don't usually have as big of a desire to have sex. I know a lot of lesbian couples don't have sex often (at least that's what I heard ) Both: --Someone smart. Unfortunately, all the guys I've dated have been really stupid. --Loves animals. -- funny/good sense of humor --I don't like to be spoiled. I'd want someone who is okay with not going out all the time, or staying in once in a while. --likes to do fun things --likes to travel --is vegetarian/vegan (or at least v/v-friendly). My ex-fiance didn't even understand what a vegetarian was, and would always take us to fast-food joints, and I'd be like, "Umm...I can't eat anything here!" and he just wouldn't get it. Most of the time, I'd just have fries and a drink, and he'd get upset. My current boyfriend is vegan, so it's a lot easier. --is fine with recreational drug use. My ex-fiance was really straight-edge, which is absolutely fine, but I didn't like it b/c he would act as if it was such an outrage that I used illegal substances. --is willing to take control occasionally. I'm not the most assertive person. --moderate-liberal to more radical socialist views. I've tried to date someone with significantly different political views and it just didn't work. --is not super-religious. Again, this is something that I tried, and it wound up blowing up in my face, especially when he accused me of being Satanic b/c I "deflowered" him. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Marilyn_M Posted January 7, 2007 Members Share Posted January 7, 2007 My ideal lover...................... A man that can love me unconditionally. With unconditional love, everything else will fall into place as it should. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Sweet_VeeVee24 Posted January 7, 2007 Members Share Posted January 7, 2007 That, and finding a guy who doesn't think that you should stick w/him 24/7 and disregard everyone else you may care about/for Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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