It's time to say......

[Soapsuds]

Goodbye!  I can no longer take Toups. I'm here to have fun and he's taken it away. I'm not wanted here by him. It is obvious. Other trolls and posters get away with a lot and there still here harassing posters.

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[DramatistDreamer]

Are you serious?

Maybe I'm not in those threads, but I have never seen major conflict between you two.

We don't always agree on all our viewpoints but I have generally enjoyed your sense of humor and your posts. 

Hopefully, you can both work this one out. 

[AbcNbc247]

This is so f...ed up

[victoria foxton]

I will miss you. You always made SON fun and lively. My first friend on here. We shared many laughs over the years. Plus our mutual crush on Mr. Massey. I saw you're last couple of post. I saw no trolling. Meanwhile Craigwhatshisname is still here. The unfairness of the situation is unreal.

 

Edited October 17, 2021 by victoria foxton

[NothinButAttitude]

No?! Don't leave. 

[kalbir]

Don't leave, you're one of my favorite posters here.

[dragonflies]

Don't leave, you're giving the trolls what they want

[Ponds]

I have absolutely no idea what is happening on parts of this board that I never read, but would like to continue posting with you on the threads we both enjoy!

[KMan101]

 

Same. I rarely venture out of my usual spots LOL. Off-topic I can't ever jump into ... but agreed. I love SoapSuds and his humor and I feel like I can joke back and forth with him in silly ways and it's never serious.

 

I mean, to Toups ... is it about the shirtless men? I will say there are times I roll my eyes as much as I love the eye candy. I'm just being honest. Sometimes there's a time for it and sometimes there isn't, but that's just me. I'll never not be upset seeing a hot guy with his shirt off nearly naked. Ever. And I won't be a dick about it. I guess I am now but I'm really not trying to be. Just being honest as I see it.

 

I mean, it is what it is. I really don't mind but I do think some do and maybe SoapSuds doesn't always 'read the room' but it's not hard to scroll on by and carry on ... 

 

Where's the energy from Toups on the trolls? I love ya Toups but can we get this board under control? Focusing on SoapsSuds is counterproductive.

 

DON'T LEAVE SOAPSUDS!

Edited October 17, 2021 by KMan101

[AbcNbc247]

I wish Soapsuds would stay too, but with the way he gets attacked on here, I don't blame him for leaving. 

[victoria foxton]

I do wish Ron would stay as well. But when even the admin is going to be disrespectful. I don't blame him. 

Edited October 17, 2021 by victoria foxton

[Faulkner]

Exactly. 

And we may not ogle the same types of men all the time, but it’s more fun to do it with you, @Soapsuds.

[DramatistDreamer]

Man, has it really been that bad??! I really have missed it all. 

In case I didn't make it clear, I enjoy Ron's posts in the ATWT thread and even though I haven't been watching much tennis, I often find myself dipping into that thread where he's one of the few board members actively posting, which keeps me up to date.

I don't really know the extent of what's going on, I hope things can be worked out, as I said before. Although, everyone has to do what's best for their well-being too. Mental health is no joke, especially in these very stressful days. If something no longer gives joy, it's best not to engage in it.

[DRW50]

I know I used to joke around a bit about Chandler Massey with you but I did appreciate your enthusiasm and you always kept the place going. I'm not going to ask you to stay unless you want to, because you should do what is right for you. If you do stay, that's great. If not, then, as Maeve Ryan said - have a good life. 

[AbcNbc247]

I know he’s doing what’s best for himself, but this still really sucks. 

He and I became good friends on here, and I don’t do social media anymore, so now I have no way of contacting him.