I hope it's ok to make a separate topic on this.

Corbin Bernsen

15 minutes ago ·

Wasn't sure how I would have to say these words so I opt for simplicity at least to begin...

My mother passed away this morning just a short time ago, peaceful with my sister by her side, in her sleep. I was going to visit this afternoon, thought I had time. Reminder to self - time is a precious thing. I too am at peace however. I said my goodbyes several times over during the last few weeks. I'll go one last time now for a gentle kiss a final farewell for this lifetime. She has been a blaze her entire life, that beacon, that boxer I spoke of earlier. She went the full twelve rounds and by unanimous decision... won! And while her light finally gave into the wind that gives flight to all our journeys, there will always be a glimmer left behind by what she stood for. I will speak about that more in coming days, months I suppose. I will certainly dedicate what remains of my life to continue her purpose of honesty, equality, humility, empathy and love. So many of you have said your prayers for her and right now, today, I can say the best way to honor her is to inhabit your lives with those things she stood for. I would ask that closer friends respectfully give us some time to find our family's path in this transition, and please limit calls, emails and the rest for a couple of days. As always, your outpouring of love here on this page, is not only welcomed to continue but truly appreciated and comforting. I asked my sister what time she passed exactly, and she told me (not to important for public record) but I was working out and just happened to pick out a song for my final moments on the treadmill - "Everlasting Light" by the Black Keys. Oh what a wonder it all is... what a magnificence!

From Corbin's Facebook Posting:


The day continued to bring peace with only brief moments/flashes of sorrow. For the most part I've come to a quicker than expected belief that my mom, right until the end, worked her magic and made all things exactly as they should be. I played back the last couple weeks and whereas I thought maybe she wanted more time, I think I was wrong - that was me wanting more. There were so many "hints" of her "ready to go." But she would graciously play it out until we were all ready, and in our proper places on the "stage." The consummate director.

This evening we gathered at her house for a meal. I was, admittedly frightened, not knowing if I would be ready to see this hub where the family had gathered for so many years, swimming in the pool, eating birthday dinners at her large table, or just laying next to her on the bed, talking about "stuff." But again, I was wrong. It was magnificent. I know I use that word quite a bit, but it was, it was extraordinary. Sure, had a quick cry when I went into her bedroom, smelled the sheets, the traces of her scent, but then it all suddenly lifted and there we were, together, her family, eating at the table once again, laughing. And she was most definitely with us, offering up her home as always, seated right alongside us at the table.

My brother in law shared with me her final scene from Young and Restless, one I had heard about only yesterday. Her final bit of "acting," or as I'm coming to believe, "being." Mom never acted, she fully became the role. Like with so many things in her life, the lines we usually draw between where we stand on issues or the line between actor and character - they simply didn't exist for her. All things simply "are." Well, as many of you know by now, that was her final scene. In it I saw a woman, who some two months ago "knew" that this was to be her farewell scene. The end of a 40 year journey on the show and a sixty year journey as an actor. Her simple "goodnight" at the end - an improvised line - pretty much said it all. But the entire two minutes or so - if you study them carefully - is the stuff of legends. Each word, her mannerisms... all extraordinary now in the context of what was coming. I'm attaching it here, watch closely and you'll see a woman in complete control of her destiny - right up until the end. My mom. Wow! A mystery. A magnificence!

http://www.youtube.com/watch?feature...gyX2kc#t=1621s

That's awesome and exactly what many of us thought. What a gracious and amazing woman and performer.

Daoes anyone know if Jeanne was to leave the show for a while after that last episode? How did she know that this was the last scene. It could only be if Kathrine has not been written for for the next few weeks.

They wrote other material for Jeanne after that episode, but she wasn't well enough to come in and work.

They wrote other material for Jeanne after that episode, but she wasn't well enough to come in and work.

Yes the story was supposed ti finish playing out during sweeps just like during the 40th she was supposed to be the minister at Nictor's wedding but was too sick to tape.

Birdie aka Will Smith's mom on Fresh Prince? I love her.

She was on Fresh Prince? Loved that woman on Y&R...

RIP Jeanne...

Wow only on DC could a thread about a statement released regarding JC's passing turn into a bash JFP thread

http://daytimeconfidential.zap2it.com/2013/05/08/yr-showrunner-jill-farren-phelps-issues-statement-on-death-of-jeanne-cooper

Wow only on DC could a thread about a statement released regarding JC's passing turn into a bash JFP thread

http://daytimeconfidential.zap2it.com/2013/05/08/yr-showrunner-jill-farren-phelps-issues-statement-on-death-of-jeanne-cooper

I saw that. Serious eye roll material. I mean, JFP had known Jeanne for 5 minutes. How long of a statement were those people expecting?

This thread almost turned into a JFP hate thread too.

And if JFP had released a longer statement, she'd be bashed for that too. Looking forward to the tribute to Jeanne.

Exclusive: How The Young and the Restless Will Deal With the Death of Jeanne Cooper

http://www.tvguide.com/News/Young-Restless-Jeanne-Cooper-1065591.aspx

^^ Damn. Can't wait to see this.

It's nice that they invited so many people to participate, even though some couldn't because of scheduling conflicts.

That was a nice interview. For once, I will trust. Please, God, make this good!

I am looking forward to this as well, but it's going to be tough watching all those people up there talk about Jeanne when there probably will be lots of tears and what not...

I'm glad they are giving Katherine a memorial service....sounds like it won't be on air till Late July/early August....

I just wish they would invite Kay Alden back to help right the memorial episode and also include the classic background music which is necessary for a time like this.