I wish Monique had the presence of mind to walk away, but she was so filled with lingering rage at Candiace and was ready to put her in her place. A few people might think it looks weak to cede ground to someone who gets in your personal space, but I think it looks far weaker to let some annoying little girl get you out of your character. Walk away, girl. Giving someone a good butt-whoopin’ might feel great, but that sh!t gets you locked up, and I have way too much to lose to have the momentary satisfaction of bashing someone’s head in.
Monique’s behavior was disturbing, from how long it took her to release Candiace’s hair to her walking around the building to attack Candiace a second time. I definitely don’t give her a pass, and if the other ladies voice that they feel appalled and uncomfortable with her behavior, I don’t blame them one bit.
That said, how many brawls and scraps have we seen on Jersey? What about Lisa Rinna on BH breaking the wine glass in front of Kim Richards in Amsterdam, shards of which ended up in people’s hair and could have easily cut or blinded someone? There are a few women on these shows who could use a bit of self-control.