Members Scotty Posted October 14, 2012 Author Members Share Posted October 14, 2012 It is such a frightening thought isn't it? No wife, no kids, no grandkids, and for me, no siblings.....just cousins who may or may not decide they want to help me and visit me in a nursing home....I've seen that happen to other people and I just keep praying that it will never happen to me but at this rate, it just might... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Soapsuds Posted October 14, 2012 Members Share Posted October 14, 2012 How old r u Scotty?? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Scotty Posted October 14, 2012 Author Members Share Posted October 14, 2012 I know what you're thinking...lol. You're only 32.....but still I have felt this way for a long time. I didn't even start dating until I was 23. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members SFK Posted October 14, 2012 Members Share Posted October 14, 2012 I'm actually more concerned about being old and broke than old and alone. There's someone for EVERYone out there, trust that. But you have got to get yourself out there as cliche as it sounds. Don't go out LOOKING for a mate, just GO OUT... with an open mind. And if bars aren't for you they won't be for your potential mate either so go to social places where people have a shared interest in that establishment's vibe. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Soapsuds Posted October 14, 2012 Members Share Posted October 14, 2012 I know how you feel...I am ten years your senior....and I am still single.... That's another worry too..being old and broke...damn SFK for being a downer...haha...lol.....I need a man....lol...with money...would solve both my worries/problems...lol Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Mr. Vixen Posted October 14, 2012 Members Share Posted October 14, 2012 I totally feel your pain. I have 6 siblings but even I fear it. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Scotty Posted October 14, 2012 Author Members Share Posted October 14, 2012 It is scary to think about it. Well I worry about being broke then too......lol. The triple threat.....old, alone, and broke. Yeah I don't do bars, but I hear ya about other places....that makes me wish I didn't live in such a little town. But yeah, I know that there is someone out there for everyone, but I just wish I could hurry up and find them.....lol. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Mr. Vixen Posted October 14, 2012 Members Share Posted October 14, 2012 Go to a bar. YOLO. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Scotty Posted October 14, 2012 Author Members Share Posted October 14, 2012 It's just sad.....because you just want the companionship (among other things of course, lol).....someone there to tell about your day, to cuddle with, to confide in, to share things with, to just see their face and realize how lucky you are that you have someone you care so much about.....that's what you really miss when you are alone.....and the silence just reinforces the reality that you are truly alone.... The nearest bars from me are at least an hour and a half or more away.....a lot of work just to cruise for a woman......lol. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Mr. Vixen Posted October 14, 2012 Members Share Posted October 14, 2012 First of all, I am so sorry. Second of all, an hour isn't all that far if you find the love of your life! Or even just the love of the night.... I kid, I kid. But really. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Scotty Posted October 14, 2012 Author Members Share Posted October 14, 2012 LOL....I hear ya. I just don't do the bar scene. That being said I still plan on getting my self out there soon.....just have to get over this one first. And at least one person is already wanting to fix me up in the near future....so why not? lol Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members MissLlanviewPA Posted October 14, 2012 Members Share Posted October 14, 2012 I've never had a boyfriend even once--not even a date yet! And I'll be 24 in February. I'm happy that I have my college education and am beginning my career now, but I still feel behind relationship-wise (okay, I am behind relationship-wise ). Just a question for you guys: if someone tells you that if they had a sister, they'd want them to be like you, does that mean any relationship hopes have been dashed (even if they didn't say that you actually were like a sister to them)? I just hate thinking that every guy I'm interested in would rather have me as a friend or a sister instead . Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Scotty Posted October 14, 2012 Author Members Share Posted October 14, 2012 Yeah, it kinda sounds that way to me. And I know what you mean.....I would hate to think that everyone woman I liked only wanted me as a friend. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Mr. Vixen Posted October 14, 2012 Members Share Posted October 14, 2012 I don't necessarily think it means he doesn't want you romantically. It could just mean he thinks you're loving, kind, generous, etc. and that he'd love to have you as a part of his family. Or, it could mean there will *never* be any penetration there. It could really go either way. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members MissLlanviewPA Posted October 14, 2012 Members Share Posted October 14, 2012 You just had to go there with penetration didn't you, SoapBoy? But thanks, guys. I appreciate the feedback. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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