To me, Valentine's Day tomorrow will be wonderful if my boyfriend will go start my car tomorrow and wipe the snow off my car before my doctor's appointment.

That's all I need

Reminds me of when I had a girlfriend and would do that for her. I would wipe the snow out of her car and warm it up for her just before she would get off work. Then I would go inside, wait for her to get off work, and then walk her out to her car and kiss her goodnight.

Other times I would run her car through the car wash while she was at work and fill it up with gas (of course gas a little bit cheaper back in 2003-2004) for her without her knowing, so I could surprise her when she got off work.

I used to do all kinds of things to surprise her like that.

Sorry Actor. I don't know your first name.

I have a BF, but I don't <3 him though I've been seeing him for years.

I'm actually happier when I'm NOT with him.

The guys I work with make me happier than my BF.

There's married people out there too who wish they were single cuz they're not HAPPILY married.

Sometimes being by yourself is better.

My friend Brad is an athlete and a coach so I look up to him with a lot of respect.

He's awesome, and he rules. This is what he told me last month:

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"Sometimes life can drag you down. Some days you feel like just giving up. Things don't go your way. Maybe your back hurts and it keeps you from going to the gym as often as you'd like. Maybe someone close to you passes away. Maybe you are in a car accident that you really can't afford. Life is full of suprises. As much as I worry the things that usually get me are things that may never have crossed my tiny little worried mind. Then on some idle weekend I'm sitting there just watching TV and its really late at night and it hits me. Life is beautiful. I'm right where I need to be. I'm right where I'm supposed to be. Single is what I'm used too. It's my comfort zone. It's what I do. I was watching Scrubs a lot lately. Mostly because I can't really do much else at the moment. I love this show. It always makes me laugh and tonight the episode was a little bit about The Wizard of Oz and it made me think. You know how the story ends. Turns out the Tin Man had a heart all along. The scarecrow had the brains and the lion had courage. It's a simple concept. We spend so much of our own lives searching for things that are within ourselves all along. I guess in my life I was searching for wholeness and I realized that I am whole. I like who I am. There's no reason for me to feel as though I need someone else to be happy because I am independently happy. I know that whatever challenges I have yet to face, I shall overcome. I have faith in God that He will guide me to the one I am meant to be with and every heart ache that I may have suffered before her will be worth it. Our love will be a light upon this world. A guiding force that will not only be an example to our children but to our children's children. I have no doubt in my mind that I will find this kind of passion and love because in my heart I know I am worthy. It simply feels good to be able to raise my head and say I'm not afraid anymore. I'm not worried..."

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Happy Valentine's Day Brad. I <3 you. You're my rock.

His first name is Dusty...and nice post.

Sorry Actor. I don't know your first name.

I have a BF, but I don't <3 him though I've been seeing him for years.

I'm actually happier when I'm NOT with him.

The guys I work with make me happier than my BF.

There's married people out there too who wish they were single cuz they're not HAPPILY married.

Sometimes being by yourself is better.

My friend Brad is an athlete and a coach so I look up to him with a lot of respect.

He's awesome, and he rules. This is what he told me last month:

* * * * *

"Sometimes life can drag you down. Some days you feel like just giving up. Things don't go your way. Maybe your back hurts and it keeps you from going to the gym as often as you'd like. Maybe someone close to you passes away. Maybe you are in a car accident that you really can't afford. Life is full of suprises. As much as I worry the things that usually get me are things that may never have crossed my tiny little worried mind. Then on some idle weekend I'm sitting there just watching TV and its really late at night and it hits me. Life is beautiful. I'm right where I need to be. I'm right where I'm supposed to be. Single is what I'm used too. It's my comfort zone. It's what I do. I was watching Scrubs a lot lately. Mostly because I can't really do much else at the moment. I love this show. It always makes me laugh and tonight the episode was a little bit about The Wizard of Oz and it made me think. You know how the story ends. Turns out the Tin Man had a heart all along. The scarecrow had the brains and the lion had courage. It's a simple concept. We spend so much of our own lives searching for things that are within ourselves all along. I guess in my life I was searching for wholeness and I realized that I am whole. I like who I am. There's no reason for me to feel as though I need someone else to be happy because I am independently happy. I know that whatever challenges I have yet to face, I shall overcome. I have faith in God that He will guide me to the one I am meant to be with and every heart ache that I may have suffered before her will be worth it. Our love will be a light upon this world. A guiding force that will not only be an example to our children but to our children's children. I have no doubt in my mind that I will find this kind of passion and love because in my heart I know I am worthy. It simply feels good to be able to raise my head and say I'm not afraid anymore. I'm not worried..."

* * * * *

Happy Valentine's Day Brad. I <3 you. You're my rock.

Great post!

Happy Valentine's Day to everyone.

Edited February 14, 200718 yr by Kanewomen2005

Yeah, I was like a gay Valerie from 90210. Vulnerable, but VICIOUS!

I [!@#$%^&*] love this!

It's a shame you're gay...you could have joined me tomorrow when I pop in My Bloody Valentine. The most realistic love story of them all.

Sounds good to me.

I had the worst Valentine's Day ever. This was the worst day of my life. Well that is yet to come. I got news I didn't want to hear. I was dreading the day I would get this news but I didnt think I would get it today of all days.

I had the worst Valentine's Day ever. This was the worst day of my life. Well that is yet to come. I got news I didn't want to hear. I was dreading the day I would get this news but I didnt think I would get it today of all days.

What happened?

I had the worst Valentine's Day ever. This was the worst day of my life. Well that is yet to come. I got news I didn't want to hear. I was dreading the day I would get this news but I didnt think I would get it today of all days.

awe, Soapsuds.... ::hugs from your fellow Texan::

It's okay Soapsuds, Valentine's Day is traditionally THE worst day of the year.

Dear LAWD, what happened soapsuds?

Well, I got news that a good friend of mine is leaving town this summer. He works at the same place I do. He had hinted he might leave in a couple of years...3 to be exact. Now I find it out he is selling his house and moving away this summer. He is moving to another city. I am going to miss him so much. I am in tears right now.

Oh that sucks Actor well I wish I could help you out but just be around here and post with friends that should cheer your day up....my sweety and I (well more serious she's my fiance) are going out to dinner tonight in smog ridden Los Angeles and may catch a movie at the local theater.

Hope things work out better for you

UGH!!

Like, this day should be out-lawed!!

I didn't even go to class today. I heard my alarm, got up, turned it off, went back to bed.

Got a call from my friend, who I thought was going to have nothing to do, but she had alot to do...so I only spent like 5 minutes with her.

Then my roommate (the dorkiest kid on the planet) walks by and says he's going to eat with a girl that we both know.

Then, I go to work. Only to find out that we didn't have enough people to work, so they sent everyone home. (Which sucks because I need the hours/moolah).

Today sucks...

Well....I wore a new shirt today....

Nothing big on my part. I was on the prowl but came up empty-handed. *tear*