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2 hours ago, ranger1rg said:

I'm not crazy about how they're dealing with the hair loss situation.

-- Will she continue to lose her hair in a realistic way, like most cancer patients suffering hair loss? Or will they pretend that Anita's problem is solved with a haircut? If they're going to portray this realistically, Anita will have to wear a head scarf or turban for months. I don't know that the show is willing to go there.

I've recently learned there's an elaborate process of "scalp cooling" (freezing the hair) and using gels which keeps most chemo patients from losing their hair. A friend of mine opted for that and went through chemo without ever losing hair (except eyebrows). I had no idea the process even existed until last year.

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26 minutes ago, Broderick said:

I've recently learned there's an elaborate process of "scalp cooling" (freezing the hair) and using gels which keeps most chemo patients from losing their hair. A friend of mine opted for that and went through chemo without ever losing hair (except eyebrows). I had no idea the process even existed until last year.

Which begs the question as to why Anita wouldn't know this with all her money and connections.

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6 minutes ago, ranger1rg said:

Which begs the question as to why Anita wouldn't know this with all her money and connections.

I kinda thought with Anita's long flowing hair, she might opt for scalp-cooling from the get-go. The person I knew who was doing it went through a "hair cooling" process shortly before each chemo session and then wore a "cold cap" during the chemo infusions which kept the hair pretty much "frozen" during the infusion. There's also a long list of things you can't do -- not supposed to use any hair-coloring products, not supposed to curl it or iron it or any of that stuff. All I know is that it works.

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The obvious answer is that scalp cooling would take away from the storyline. Losing your hair because of chemo is an expected part of a cancer storyline.

Side note, but Sean Freeman is presented on an awards show on BET. I just heard my mom say "That's Andre" lol.

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2 minutes ago, ReddFoxx said:

Side note, but Sean Freeman is presented on an awards show on BET. I just heard my mom say "That's Andre" lol.

Hehe. Adorable.

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45 minutes ago, Broderick said:

I kinda thought with Anita's long flowing hair, she might opt for scalp-cooling from the get-go. The person I knew who was doing it went through a "hair cooling" process shortly before each chemo session and then wore a "cold cap" during the chemo infusions which kept the hair pretty much "frozen" during the infusion. There's also a long list of things you can't do -- not supposed to use any hair-coloring products, not supposed to curl it or iron it or any of that stuff. All I know is that it works.

I hear you.

For me the mistake is pretending that Anita's long hair was her own. Didn't we all assume that was a wig? It was a great wig and looked good on her, but it was clearly a wig.

Now we're supposed to pretend that was her real hair. Huh? Dani cuts it and all of a sudden Anita's long straight hair turns curly -- and there's no mention of further hair loss.

I realize we might hear more about this. BTG has surprised us with more in the past. I'm just concerned this wasn't fully thought out.

I've said before that I don't want the show to be cancer heavy, but I also don't want the show to cover real issues in an unrealistic way.

Anita already gets a private room for her chemo treatments. You've brought up a hair loss treatment that these people should know about and can afford.

Am I nitpicking again? Yeah, I am, because serious issues shouldn't be treated with anything less than the truth. If they can't do that, I'd rather not see it at all.

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Speaking of Andre....mmmmm those pants he had on today.

12 hours ago, Soaplovers said:

The core four can't be the whole show, and I liked the episode yesterday because the core 4 weren't in the episode.

Don't get me wrong. I agree. What I meant was that there was a looooooong period where it was just the SPS/Eva show where they got propped or stayed winning just a little too much for some when the show should have been about the Duprees. It wouldn't have annoyed me much personally, except for the fact that outside of Dani, the other three didn't have ANY storylines going on. And those were the people who the audience want to see...not to mention who the show is built around. It wouldn't have been so noticeable if there were stronger stories going on, but Joey/Vanessa was the only well-constructed B plot that could hold attention when it was in the spotlight IMHO.

So I'm happy for the pivot. All four have storylines going on (though I could use some Dark Vernon) and we have plenty going on again that we don't need them in every episode. It does seem like the audience is responding more (and showing up more) thanks to said pivot.

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I think that the show wants to avoid the idea that Black women don't have long hair, because many do. Anita's hair being curly could easily be explained as her using heat straightening where a simple wash would revert the hair to a natural state. Of course further hair loss is going to be expected but symbolically cutting it was Anita taking control of fate by not prolonging the process of hair coming out in clumps. With a shorter cut there is less hair to come out.

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I mean they have done such a good job so far that I fully expect her to lose more hair.

I am curious to see if they will truly play out how chemo can suck out your energy and it's difficult to get back to feeling like yourself again.

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5 hours ago, ReddFoxx said:

The obvious answer is that scalp cooling would take away from the storyline. Losing your hair because of chemo is an expected part of a cancer storyline.

Oh yeah, I expected Anita to lose her hair (or some of it), because that's an old soap staple when someone has breast cancer. But you'd kinda think if they're going to the effort of "educating" us about the BRCA gene, they'd also "educate" us a little bit about newer chemotherapy developments, especially since they explained about the infusion port and showed her first treatment on-screen. (I figured this was just an opportunity for Miss Tunie to ditch her wigs for a spell.)

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5 hours ago, ranger1rg said:

I hear you.

For me the mistake is pretending that Anita's long hair was her own. Didn't we all assume that was a wig? It was a great wig and looked good on her, but it was clearly a wig.

Now we're supposed to pretend that was her real hair. Huh? Dani cuts it and all of a sudden Anita's long straight hair turns curly -- and there's no mention of further hair loss.

We saw Dani spraying Anita's hair with water after cutting it which I took as an indication she was reverting it back to it's curly state. I know the hairstylist on the show posted a video of how she's been using her products to grow Tamara Tunie's natural hair and she posted a video of it straightened. I was surprised to see how long it is compared to how it looks when it's curly.

Black hair is unique and complicated to understand. Shrinkage is a thing and it's very versatile. I appreciate that they are at least attempting to show this change. It's not easy and the execution isn't perfect but I thought it a creative way to do it instead of puting her in a bald cap.

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9 hours ago, ranger1rg said:

Yeah, like when she meets Randy in public when their entire conversation could've been an email 😂

A light self sabotage. ❤️

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14 hours ago, ranger1rg said:

Yeah, like when she meets Randy in public when their entire conversation could've been an email 😂

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😂😂😂

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I'm behind and need to get caught up, but I'm super excited for what will hopefully be a great sweeps month.

I'm not sure who the people are for BTG in my ChatGPT caricature, but it still made me laugh.

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Please no AI in here.

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