Members Soapsuds Posted May 27, 2014 Members Share Posted May 27, 2014 Hadnt been at this thread for a long time...interesting read about her....you need to runnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnn away from her...lol...she looks so innocent in the pic but sounds completely nuts.....lol Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Soapsuds Posted June 8, 2014 Members Share Posted June 8, 2014 Went out on a date yesterday...what a disaster.....the guy was cute....we met up for lunch...well as we chatted I knew right away this guy wasnt for me....then as we chatted he kept laughing at everything I said...I can be funny if i want to but I am no comedian...then he proceeded in saying how good looking I was over and over and over....finally he kept talking about what a loser his ex boyfriend was but that he was living with him.....and finally he came to see me on his bike because he has no car...later dude...lol.... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Chris B Posted June 8, 2014 Members Share Posted June 8, 2014 LOL that sounds like a fabulous date! I never date at work, but there is this guy I'm interested in right now and he's actually gay. I'm working my magic lol. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Soapsuds Posted June 8, 2014 Members Share Posted June 8, 2014 LOL...good luck!! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Nate4 Posted June 9, 2014 Members Share Posted June 9, 2014 Managing my depression and anxiety is so hard. Bad day with it for the first time in a while Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Soapsuds Posted June 9, 2014 Members Share Posted June 9, 2014 Hang in there Nate...depression and anxiety can be rough. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Nate4 Posted June 9, 2014 Members Share Posted June 9, 2014 Thank you Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Soapsuds Posted June 9, 2014 Members Share Posted June 9, 2014 I actually have a good friend going through it too. I love em a lot and he knows it. He tells me stuff he can't even tell his boyfriend. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members AlexElizabeth Posted June 9, 2014 Members Share Posted June 9, 2014 Have you ever considered meds, if you're not already on them? I've been on Prozac since I was like 15. Works wonders for me. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Nate4 Posted June 10, 2014 Members Share Posted June 10, 2014 I've taken Zoloft for three years now, but it has just seemed to stop working. I feel like I can't talk to anyone about my depression. I try to talk to my mother, but it puts her in a horrible mood, although later she comes and talks to me. But I feel guilty for making her upset. You should of seen her when I told her I was suidical.. She was hella pissed. I can't talk to my best friend about it either. Every time I bring it up, he thinks I am fine because I fake it well. I've also heard him saying mental health is just a mind game and can be controlled by strength. I love him like a bro and I can talk to him about everything but not that. Ugh. Think I got friend zoned by my girlfriend tonight. Thank god I only have 3 more days of school. I need a [!@#$%^&*] drink. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members AlexElizabeth Posted June 10, 2014 Members Share Posted June 10, 2014 Omg... are you me? Do we have the same mom? I was diagnosed with PTSD and clinical depression when I was 14 and was eventually forced into seeing a psychologist on a weekly basis. I hated her. But anyway, at some point months and months after I started seeing her, it came out that I was having suicidal thoughts (not like I ever planned on actually doing it because hell no, it's just something that would pop into my mind), and she made me tell my mom (or maybe she told her, I don't even remember) because I could be a danger to myself and my mom was livid. The whole ride home (45 minutes) she was just bitching at me about how dare I think about something like that and how she was so mad that I would think about that. Like thanks mom, that really helps. My mom was also a big fan of constantly telling me to just get over it and think happy thoughts. Because that's totally how it works. I eventually stopped seeing that psychologist because I couldn't stand her and never felt the need to see another one. The whole talking about my feelings thing just wasn't for me. With me, everything just got better with time. I know the "it gets better" stuff sounds so cliche and lame but in my case it was true. I'll be 23 this month and am now a completely mentally stable and contributing member of society, lol. The PTSD/depression will always be a part of me but it's mostly a nonfactor in my life at this point. Hopefully the same for you eventually. Feel free to send me a PM if you ever want to vent about any of this, boo. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Soapsuds Posted June 10, 2014 Members Share Posted June 10, 2014 You guys hang in there. You all can PM me as well if needed. As a matter fact I am talking to my friend and he is having a better night. I told him that I loved him...he knows its friend love and real love...lol....I know he has a bf but Ive known him longer than his bf who he cant tell his most deepest secrets. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Soapsuds Posted June 10, 2014 Members Share Posted June 10, 2014 Ok...I'll name my guys Jeff, Skip and Randy a la Blanche....lol Jeff is the first guy I met and have known the longest. Jeff has dark blonde hair and tall. We share the same birthday...right there we hit it off...more on him later Skip I met next and he said he was totally straight but now i have my doubts....he is tall with black hair.... Randy I met last...he is the shortest guy of the three and even shorter than me with a hairy chest...yummm..only one of the three with chest hair....lol More later....lol.. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Ryan Chamberlain Posted June 30, 2014 Members Share Posted June 30, 2014 *grabs a drink and then mixes some up for everyone else* Okay. There's this guy who I've been online friends with for 9 years. We met on a music board. He's from New Zealand. Well, him and I are close. Very close. We spend hours talking to each other. It's always been that way. Thing is. Around 3 years ago I developed a massive crush on him. It was bound to happen. Him and I share the same viewpoints for the most part on almost everything. He's always been there for me and I've always been there for him. And, he's got a very good heart. Such a sweet man. He is very unlucky in love. He's been through hell and back. And, I just don't understand why. I really don't think of him as a wounded bird or anything. I like him for who he is. I don't wanna save him. But, I just want to be with him. He's basically given up all hope for someone though. And, I've tried to hint to him that I would really love to meet him in person and start a relationship. He seems to like me too. But, I think the idea that he could get hurt again bothers him. Still. After all these years. I really do think he's the one that I'm looking for. I would love to just flat out tell him I love him. But, I really cannot [!@#$%^&*] up our friendship that way. So no to that. But, any ideas how to woo him guys? Oh, and he's also a fox. He's basically the whole package. But, he keeps attracted the wrong girls. Crazy. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Nate4 Posted July 5, 2014 Members Share Posted July 5, 2014 Hmm. This is a very difficult thing. I get why you don't want to tell him, though. Honestly, I would make him say it. Idk how you could push him to do that though. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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