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So the guy I was seeing has pretty much cut me off and doesn't talk to me anymore.

i saw him out on fire island...he said two words to me and then ignored me if i saw him out again..then i find out hes back with his ex..so basically i was a piece of ass to get him off until his ex wanted him back.

I hope the ring he gives to him turns his finger green....

I hope when he's in bed with him..he thinks of me....

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Shawn, when I think of a boy who has done me wrong, I think of this song. It is for you tonight

I want you to know that I'm happy for you

I wish nothing but the best for you both

An older version of me

Is she perverted like me

Would she go down on your in a theater

Does she speak eloquently?

And would she have your baby

I'm sure she'd make a really excellent mother

'Cause the love that you gave that we made

wasn't able to make it enough for you to be open wide, no

And every time you speak her name

Does she know how you told me you'd hold me

Until you died, 'til you died

But you're still alive

And I'm here to remind you

Of the mess you left when you went away

It's not fair to deny me

Of the cross I bear that you gave to me

You, you, you oughta know

You seem very well, things look peaceful

I'm not quite as well, I thought you should know

Did you forget about me Mr. Duplicity

I hate to but you in the middle of dinner

It was a slap in the face how quickly I was replaced

Are you thinking of me when you [!@#$%^&*] her

'Cause the love that you gave that we made

wasn't able to make it enough for you to be open wide, no

And every time you speak her name

Does she know how you told me you'd hold me

Until you died, 'til you died

But you're sill alive

And I'm here to remind you

Of the mess you left when you went away

It's not fair to deny me

Of the cross I bear that you gave to me

You, you, you oughta know

'Cause the joke that you laid in the bed that was me

And I'm not gonna fade

As soon as you close your eyes and you know it

And every time I scratch my nails down someone else's back

I hope you feel it...well can you feel it

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Shawn I am sorry that guy ignored and trested you like that, I know he doesn't deserve you anyway. This is the main reason I will never commit to a guy, he will ALWAYS cheat and it sucks I can't believe otherwise. IMO no matter how good you look or how nice and loving you are to a gay man he will eventually cheat on you. That's why with guys I just have fun AND am always upfront about that.

I am so pissed at my school right now, one of my summer classes was cancelled a week before it starts this upcoming Monday. Now I might have to wait another semester now to enroll in the school I want to be in for my major just because of this one goddamn class, thanks school! :angry:

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Now thats unfair to say that ALL gay guys are like that. Its far from it. Granted, everyone I've dated has cheated, but I know I'm loyal. And a lot of people I know are as well.

Its just so hard to find someone who just wants to cuddle up on the couch with takeout and netflix, and who says "me too" when I tell him that my favorite thing to do is fall asleep with someone's heartbeat in my ear or their breath on the back of my neck.

Why can't I find someone like that?

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This is exactly why I've never really dated anyone. I don't have the patience for that gay man, so it make sit all the harder to weed through.

And Tishy? Greatest bitter song ever. I <3 Alanis.

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Shawn, you are right it is unfair to say all gay men will cheat but in my experiences I have been with so many guys with b/f's its ridiculous. I am not out and I try to be as discreet as I can, so the way I do things is not the best way to see what gay life is really like. I should say I don't try and find guys with b/f it just happens that way about half the time. But then the other guy usually says well we have an open relationship so its ok if we fool around.

I myself have never cheated on someone, but I have only had 2 real relationships and havent had one in 3 years.

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The problem is that most gay men out there are a bunch of 10's looking for an 11, or they are looking for Mr. Right NOW rather than Mr. Right.

I'm happy to be alone for a while if I know that my road will end with happiness.

It just gets to be so hard sometimes.

And I REFUSE to date anyone from a club meeting. Thats the worst. They want you to see who they want you to see rather than who they really are.

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