Well, I'm looking at it from the side of a woman who has been sexually harassed and undermined by a man.
We hear the resumes of the men and we are hand-wringing about how to regard them and their work (which is fair) but when are we going to start hearing the stories of the women whose careers were upended by this type of systematic belittling based on gender? When will we really start to regard the cost of all that creative work that was never create and therefore lost to us?
What about the women whose paths were made harder or even blocked? What about those of us who were so discouraged, disheartened that we didn't live up to our full potential because of the "gate-keepers" who wrecked our confidence?
Yes, I include myself because I very much had to deal with a least one or two men who I had hoped would be a mentor who just saw me as a potential 'side piece' or bed partner, had no interest in a mentoring role (only if you consider 'sugar daddy' some type of mentoring role).
There are countless stories of women that I know, talented women who gave up because they had to deal with too much B.S. and they got weary.
That is truly the sad part of this story. This is where my sympathies are and remain.
At the very least, all of these men had access, opportunities and time to build their careers. Many of those women who drifted away from building their careers...didn't.