Members EricMontreal22 Posted August 24, 2011 Author Members Share Posted August 24, 2011 One last comment, and I'll shut up, for now I've never battled weight issues--It's helped I think that I'm vegetarian and despite giving up on ever being a pro dancer, have kept it up, but I have a twin sister who battled bulimia for years (and still somewhat is), and a mother who has battled her weight due to thyroid issues (which are under control now but she still is overweight, though not obese and thanks to her vegetarian and halth concsious diet actually has no cholesterol or health issues unlike her MUCH leaner boyfriend, who somehow seems baffled by the fact he has so may more typical weight issues than she does and doesn't seem to get why...). I think it is too simplific--and I appreciate your background DaytimeFan and know you know what you speak of, but--to say there are very few reasons to be overweight, but regardless, it's much more about the way Joan said it. And of course... that;s a huge part of her appeal--how blunt she is, and I'm sure she knows that. LOL It's one thing to find her entertaining, the way you would find your fun grandma who you realize is racist and you can't take anything she says seriously, but it does seem (from the forum I found this interview on alone) that many people feel she's preaching the truth. Again, that's actually not Joan's fault, or responsibility, but I think it's worthy of argument. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Mr. Vixen Posted August 24, 2011 Members Share Posted August 24, 2011 I agree. I respect your background, as well, DaytimeFan, but I don't feel you can just dismiss weight-gain like that. Food can be a serious addiction. As someone who struggled very much with food addiction in relation to depression and lack of self-esteem when I was much younger, I can wholeheartedly assure you that gaining weight/ being overweight is NOT a choice. You can hit that gym everyday. You can try to eat smaller meals. But when food is a coping mechanism, an escaping mechanism, that weight is there to stay. So maybe she's been pregnant, but it's not the same thing. And I'm assuming you've never been overweight yourself (though pardon me if I'm wrong), because I don't honestly believe someone who has been could say something so callous or agree with the comments this woman made. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members EricMontreal22 Posted August 24, 2011 Author Members Share Posted August 24, 2011 That's it--I admit I come from a shrink heavy background, having seen one for some childhood issues off and on since I was really young--but I know the people in my family who have struggled with weight issues (either way) have also struggled with extreme sexual abuse. It's a complex issue because many factors are involved, but that's true of alcoholism too (didn't Joan have issues with drunk?), and drug dependency, etc--by no means is it all about self control or one or two health issues. I don't think the weight epidemic in the USA (and, ok here in Canada too) is all because everyone has suffered some form of abuse, by any means. Not even close. But it is a much more complex issue. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Mr. Vixen Posted August 24, 2011 Members Share Posted August 24, 2011 I typed out a long reply, but I'm not sure whether this is the right time to post it. We'll see what DaytimeFan (and others) have to say in reply to my post and Eric's, and then maybe I'll share. All I'll say is that I was not physically or sexually abused EVER in my life, but I know that is a huge cause for food addiction. My issues with weight stemmed from depression as well, and I'll leave it at that. For now. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members EricMontreal22 Posted August 24, 2011 Author Members Share Posted August 24, 2011 Well a background of abuse does play into depression, often--so it's not so far removed in that way, I do think it's psychological as much as physical. (and I mean look at a famous example like Oprah who has the best chefs and personal trainers behind her and has never really been able to shake the weight) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Mr. Vixen Posted August 24, 2011 Members Share Posted August 24, 2011 Oh I agree. I was simply saying for me, MY depression didn't stem from any form of abuse. It stemmed from my own problems with self-esteem and self-worth issues. However, you're right. Many times abuse plays into it. I was just saying that wasn't the case for me, personally. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members EricMontreal22 Posted August 24, 2011 Author Members Share Posted August 24, 2011 Absolutely agreed. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members YRBB Posted August 24, 2011 Members Share Posted August 24, 2011 She just took to her Twitter to claim that AOL falsely stated she called fat people "orca sized oafs" and that AOL should be severely reprimanded for incitement. Drama! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members ReddFoxx Posted August 24, 2011 Members Share Posted August 24, 2011 Reagan was just all around very backward a lot of issues, without getting too political, I'll just say he set the ball rolling on a lot of the political theatrics that go on today. I do have to admit, I'm not that well read in Thatcher's positions outside of economics, as I've always read about her economic style, but I'm not surprised to read that. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members SFK Posted August 24, 2011 Members Share Posted August 24, 2011 Then where the hell would they get a quote like that? Wasn't it from a piece she wrote? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members dragonflies Posted August 24, 2011 Members Share Posted August 24, 2011 Plus when you are overweight, shedding those pounds is NOT easy, take it from someone who has a family history of obesity and struggles with weight issues myself. Ugh bitch just needs to own it, cause I have no doubt she said it. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members EricMontreal22 Posted August 24, 2011 Author Members Share Posted August 24, 2011 Yeah it seeim to hold truth. (grasps his Dynasty box sets) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Mr. Vixen Posted August 24, 2011 Members Share Posted August 24, 2011 Totally agree with all of this. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members dragonflies Posted August 24, 2011 Members Share Posted August 24, 2011 I know people who eat right, exercise and whanot and STILL have trouble losing weight. It's just not that simple Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Mr. Vixen Posted August 24, 2011 Members Share Posted August 24, 2011 Absolutely. And It aggravates me more than ANYTHING else when people who have never been in that situation want to judge and make rude, ignorant comments. I guess that's what you have to do to stay relevant, when your career dried up 25 years ago and no one is begging you to take any roles... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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