Jump to content

DAYS: You were raped? Eh, who cares?


Recommended Posts

  • Members

Gross.

So, Sami is violated-- for the second time in her life, at that-- and everyone other than Lucas and a few peripheral characters (Celeste, Nick) finds out off screen. They get together at the Pub and discuss the fact that EJ may have fathered her baby with a collective "meh."

Not only that, but when they intreact with Sami, no one suggests counseling.

No one offers sympathy.

No one asks how she's doing.

No even considers pressing charges-- in fact, they moan about not having a witness to the OTHER major crime the perpetrator committed that night.

Gross.

All the writers had to do to keep EJ running free for a while longer was have Sami say "I can't bring myself to press charges after what happened with Alan. I can't go through the stress while I'm pregnant, and I don't want my teenager following this on the news." The others could reluctantly agree, especially since due to her past shenanigans, she might not be given much credibility by a judge if she had to testify.

But no.

She was raped, and it's a non-issue.

She was raped, and the reveal is off-screen.

She was raped, and it's all who's-the-daddy like she had a damn affair.

She was raped, and she's offering friendship to her rapist.

She was raped, and nobody cares-- not even her.

Gross.

Link to comment
Share on other sites

  • Replies 183
  • Created
  • Last Reply
  • Members

I can't believe this never even dawned upon me!

You're right. No one at the pub asked why theres a possibility that her child could be EJ's? How it happened? That is said!

Although, if they had spoken of what happened, and Sami had contemplated pressing charges, she would've been successful! She has evidence of blackmail.

That is sad!

Link to comment
Share on other sites

  • Members

I agree, too many people seem to want to push Sami and EJ together soon because they have chemistry. However, they must deal with the fact that EJ's violated Sami in just about every way possible. Two characters can have chemistry, but something as serious as rape should definitely not be ignored.

We need to be realistic, why would we want Sami to suddenly jump into something serious with her rapist? Just because they have chemistry? Please . . .

Link to comment
Share on other sites

  • Administrator

Beautiful post!!

But remember, the most important thing is chemistry. The story takes a backseat to that. The thing is if this was a violent, brutal rape, there would be no possibility of a romance. But instead it was a "nicer rape".....you know with no bruises or her screaming for her life.....also we didn't actually see the rape on screen......so bring on the romance!!

Link to comment
Share on other sites

  • Members

I'm all for an EJ/Sami romance, and I will not let a storytelling misstep prevent it from happening--no matter how many posters tell me it's sick. Sami has raped people before (Austin); she's shot people, hurt people, lied to people... all sorts of horrible things. She didn't deserve it. But she is also strong enough to get over it. And if EJ is somehow redeemed, I'm all for it.

It is irrational, and I would not support this type of action in real life, but... Well, but nothing! I don't need to justify my feelings. I want it. :P

Link to comment
Share on other sites

  • Members

I so agree.

I'm not asking that the rape be swept under the rug. I wish they would tackle it and deal with it head-on! The way they've dealt with it thus far has been rather disappointing.

If they could take Luke and Laura from rape to a supercouple, I'm sure that EJ can be redeemed, as well. Look at Sami! That girl's a rapist, herself... she's a fan favorite! Look at Jack Deveraux -- another rapist turned hero. This is a soap opera, and anything is possible. I don't celebrate the rape, but I do see it as a giant mistake in the story. I wish it hadn't happened, but it did. I'm not going to let that destroy the fact that there's major possibility with the chemistry between Sweeney and Scott, though. Writing mistakes can be mended, always. Again, look at Luke/Laura and Jack Deveraux, or rapist Sami Brady, herself.

Everyone agrees that rape is bad and it needs to be handled accordingly. Both LUMI and EJAMI fans agree on that, even though I'm sure one side will disagree. When all that is over, and they've given EJ some redemption, gimme some EJAMI!

Link to comment
Share on other sites

Archived

This topic is now archived and is closed to further replies.

  • Recently Browsing   0 members

    • No registered users viewing this page.



  • Recent Posts

    • I wish the Black male characters felt more fleshed out (and I’m not talking about gross 2000s-style man pain like with Jonathan Randall or Billy Abbott). I feel like we don’t have as much access to their interior worlds, which—fine—female genre. Right now, the balance on BTG feels off to me gender-wise, mostly because there are a lot of Dupree daughters (Chelsea, Naomi, Dani, Nicole, Kat, possibly Eva) and only one son (Martin). Feel free to disagree. I think Andre, Bill, and Martin feel closest to male “main characters” to me (Jacob had his quick moment), in that they can drive a scene from their POV and not as a supporting character. I’m waiting for the secrets to be fully revealed so that the men can show more layers. But things like having two cheating husbands stand out more in this type of environment.
    • I'll get back to you when Jordan appears on screen. Lol!  
    • Don't feel bad: most do. I know it's in the "less than" category of opinions. And lunch? What's for lunch today?

      Please register in order to view this content

       Definitely am improvement overall, hah. I want someone to call him "bastard". Ha. Maybe I should sneak into Port Charles for a second.
    • A very underrated writer/director, IMO.  Of course, not all of his films were successful or memorable, but the ones that are - "Kramer," "Places in the Heart," "Nobody's Fool," etc. - are masterpieces.
    • I tend to ignore the fact you like Tanisha Harper.  She just blends in.  When she comes on screen I literally mind drift and think what I want for lunch. Melgar's Lily at least iconically blew up!!!  And once you know she's going to explode LM is tolerable in rewatch. It's coming!!  Half the young people in town call him "Uncle Sonny" or, well, "Dad" lol.  You know Emma's going to be on that bandwagon. 
    • Jennifer Brooks had insisted that life go on since all her family knew that death might be eminent for her. Brock had given them a philosophy by which to live. "God grant me the serenity to accept that which I cannot change, the courage to change that which I am able and the wisdom to know the difference." Lorie asked her father to let her give a big party for the family and friends to celebrate her parents' thirtieth wedding an-niversary. He disapproved until Lorie said this was not a reminder of how little time there was, but a celebration of the life they had had together. Jennifer was pleased and looked forward to the party.  That evening, Stuart gave Jennifer her anniversary gift before the party rather than after. It was a diamond heart pendant to symbolize the heart he gave her long ago — his own. Lance and Lorie gave them a trip to Paris as a gift. Stuart had wanted to take Jennifer away, but she wouldn't leave the girls with their problems. The party was such a success that Jennifer told Stuart that this had been the most wonderful night of her life. Jennifer slipped away in Stuart's arms that night, clutching her pendant.  Stuart called Lorie who located all her sisters and asked them to meet at their parents'. He explained that their mother felt no pain and was happy as she passed peacefully away. Peggy felt she should have been home for her mother rather than visiting a friend, but Stuart said it was sudden. Lorie blamed herself for giving the party which was probably too much. Stuart told her how much that party meant to Jennifer. Brock came by to tell them that Jennifer had him draw up instructions for her burial and wanted only her family with her. He also had a letter for Stuart. She wrote him this love letter in case she didn't have the opportunity to tell him in person how much their life together had meant to her and this is why she wanted him to remarry.  Snapper visited his mother after he learned of Jennifer's death. He felt he hadn't seen enough of her recently.  After the funeral, Peggy told her sisters that she would not be going away to school. She was the only one left to care for their father because Chris and Lorie had husbands and Leslie had a career. Stuart insisted that Peggy finish packing and catch her plane to school as planned.  Chris was worried about her father after Snapper told her to keep an eye on him because grieving husbands could become ill as they didn't remember to eat. She called to insist that she was coming over to fix his dinner and found that Liz was there. Liz asked him for an extra key so that she could do the laundry and cleaning to repay him for earlier kindnesses.
    • I would assume "friends of Ripa" would come into play. 

      Please register in order to view this content

    • I'm aware of that but I was more curious about which characters were going to be included and what actors they were loooking at.
    • Harper > Melgar (yes, I said it) I happen to be in the lonely camp of actually liking Harper as Jordan, although I still believe Jordan, as a character, could easily be eliminated from the canvas, and I would be A-OK with it. Honestly, the character of Jordan went from interesting to expendable the moment she was taken out of the Jerome circle and made a law enforcement agent. I'm not age-shaming Finola Hughes either. It simply comes down to the characters at this point. To go from interacting with David Hayward and Edmund on AMC to Jason and Sonny on GH... is an actual choice. Hell, I'd even add Valentin to that list.

      Please register in order to view this content

×
×
  • Create New...

Important Information

By using this site, you agree to our Terms of Use and Privacy Policy