Edited January 2, 200817 yr by Ryan Chandler
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Oh no no no, I would NEVER ever cheat on a girl. I never have, I never will. I was cheated on by a girlfriend a few years ago and it really took a toll on me. I would never put someone through that.

It's just complicated because I've liked this girl for a while now and she never showed any interest until recently, when I had just started to (sort of )move on with someone else.

I'm very confused.

I don't want kids and that's another reason I have to be picky. Because, most men want children.

Especially most Christian, Catholic, and Jewish men. And, that's all I'll date.

So, I'm just a picky...picky woman. LOL.

I was teased like hell in school too Mary. I was told after the fact though that it was because people were jealous of me because of my looks. So, they treated me like shit.

Oh well....their loss of not wanting to be my friend and know me. Damn them.

Ooooh, you're getting a girlfriend maybe. Nice. Don't mess around on her. She won't like that.

Play nice my friend. Play nice.

And yes, I would think that a lot of men would want kids. I know I do eventually. But sometimes you can work around that or you can adapt if you find someone who you think really cares for you.....Michelle can't have kids and I knew that going into it and it was ok....surprisingly that wasn't one of our problems....but the bad part was that too many other things were apparently. lol.

Oh no no no, I would NEVER ever cheat on a girl. I never have, I never will. I was cheated on by a girlfriend a few years ago and it really took a toll on me. I would never put someone through that.

It's just complicated because I've liked this girl for a while now and she never showed any interest until recently, when I had just started to (sort of )move on with someone else.

I'm very confused.

Go for her though. It's nice to find someone who finally wants to be with you. I've been trying to do so for so long. And, I know I would be elated if someone did.

You've seen my picture, Selena. Could I be scaring them off with my shiny blonde hair and big blue eyes--do seeing those belong to a total nerd/dork in real life freak them out?

No, you're adorable! Maybe guys just pickup on you being shy?

I can never get and keep a guy. My sister claims it's because I'm a bitch and homely looking sometimes (you're seen my picture is well.....I'm no beauty queen, but I hope I don't look homely LOL).

Selena- yes, the cancer wasn't as bad as they thought. We're quite relieved.

And yes, I would think that a lot of men would want kids. I know I do eventually. But sometimes you can work around that or you can adapt if you find someone who you think really cares for you.....Michelle can't have kids and I knew that going into it and it was ok....surprisingly that wasn't one of our problems....but the bad part was that too many other things were apparently. lol.

I know that...If I was with a guy that wanted kids. I would probably either adopt or get a surrogate eventually. My problem is...I don't think that I could handle a pregnancy. With my OCD...and other problems. Hell no.

No, you're adorable! Maybe guys just pickup on you being shy?

I can never get and keep a guy. My sister claims it's because I'm a bitch and homely looking sometimes (you're seen my picture is well.....I'm no beauty queen, but I hope I don't look homely LOL).

Selena- yes, the cancer wasn't as bad as they thought. We're quite relieved.

Addie. You are not homely. You really aren't.

So glad to hear about you dad again.

Go for her though. It's nice to find someone who finally wants to be with you. I've been trying to do so for so long. And, I know I would be elated if someone did.

+1.

Honestly, sometimes I feel like pulling a Hayden Panettiere (yep, I'm THAT kind of nerd, LOL) and just dating older men. I usually have crushes on older men more, anyway. Sometimes, the grayer the better.

Let's talk about sex.

I like older men better too.

But, there's no good looking ones here. They are all creepy old men. LOL.

Well, besides a man I worked with named Evan. Evan was hot. But, he was married.

Scotty. Nothing is probably wrong with you. I get the I just wanna be friends thing all the time from guys who I actually really like. I end up attracting the assholes better.

Nah. You look great. You're totally not scaring them off because of that or the nerdy thing either. Hell, I'm nerdy too. Very nerdy. I could talk for hours about sitcoms and music. LMAO.

I think some guys...and some girls as well out there (nobody here) Just don't have good taste.

Thanks. It's nice to hear that someone else thinks so.

And love just sucks.. It is great when you have it , but it just really awhole lot of work and sometimes not even worth the effort.

Let's talk about sex.

What's that?

Seriously.

I'm so OCD about getting preggo by accident that I haven't did that in 3 years.

Edited December 30, 201212 yr by weareclouds

Let's talk about sex.

So forward! Not used to that.

Stay focused on your new girl, boy!

What's that?

Seriously.

I'm so OCD about getting preggo by accident that I haven't did that in 3 years.

Wow....your OCD must really be bad. Mine thankfully is not all that severe and I can handle it, although it does bug me out a little sometimes.

I always go for the younger guys. I'm a cougar at 26.

Someone got to Soapboy before his harem. LOL.

Wow....your OCD must really be bad. Mine thankfully is not all that severe and I can handle it, although it does bug me out a little sometimes.

It's only severe on that....

I also think it's because of the trust issue again. I didn't worry about it at all when I was with my ex.

I always go for the younger guys. I'm a cougar at 26.

I'm a reverse cougar.

What's that?

Seriously.

I'm so OCD about getting preggo by accident that I haven't did that in 3 years.