Members Matt Posted November 5, 2006 Members Share Posted November 5, 2006 Men are assholes. I think I'm back to being a cold hearted playboy. Screw 'em and leave 'em. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members King Posted November 5, 2006 Members Share Posted November 5, 2006 Um, YES! I feel the exact same way. The last few weeks have not been good... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Matt Posted November 5, 2006 Author Members Share Posted November 5, 2006 I haven't been busting my ass in the gym 1 1/2 to 2 hours a day, 3-4 days a week in the gym since June to let it go to waste. I'm 35 years old and in the best shape I've ever been. Screw 'em. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members King Posted November 5, 2006 Members Share Posted November 5, 2006 I'm just really sick of mind games. I thought girls were bad. Guys are just as bad. Actually gay men are worse than girls in that department. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Keith Posted November 5, 2006 Members Share Posted November 5, 2006 That's life, boys. It's all trial and error - some of us are never lucky enough to find just what we're looking for, so we just have to be happy with what we are. It's not always easy; in fact, it almost never is. That said, yes, men are assholes. Myself included. We all have our moments and, it seems, that all the ones we find are just assholes 24/7. That's why we have friends. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Soapsuds Posted November 5, 2006 Members Share Posted November 5, 2006 You are finally realizing that? I thought you were a CHP already? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Shawn Posted November 5, 2006 Members Share Posted November 5, 2006 I've been single for almost two years now because I got my heart broken by guys so many times in the past. In my experience, the guys that I've dated seem to think that monogamy is a type of wood. Right now I'm completely happy spending time with friends. If I happen to meet someone randomly and it turns to something long lasting, that'd be great. But I learned my lesson too many times that you can't go out looking for a boyfriend, especially in the world of gay clubs. In clubs do you find not Mr Right, but Mr Right NOW. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Keith Posted November 6, 2006 Members Share Posted November 6, 2006 Ditto what Shawn said - that's the best way to live, I find. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members King Posted November 6, 2006 Members Share Posted November 6, 2006 My first time having it happen was just a few weeks ago. And I agree with the second statement which is why my first real heartbreak, if you want to call it that, was so recent. I'm content with friends and family, for sure. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Toadstool Posted November 6, 2006 Members Share Posted November 6, 2006 Men are pigs! OINK! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members KLN Posted November 6, 2006 Members Share Posted November 6, 2006 Not ALL men are assholes. That's why we always fall for 'em an end up hurt -- we know that there are decent dudes out there, and we always just assume/hope that we found one of the few. Enter trust... then enter heartbreak. Blah. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Bree Posted November 6, 2006 Members Share Posted November 6, 2006 Most men don't know what they want half the time and they can be stupid idiots. But I love them way too much. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members bellcurve Posted November 6, 2006 Members Share Posted November 6, 2006 After being burned by a guy who is short and shrimpy in more than one department over the summer, I've ultimately decided to a) take a vow of celibacy and not be concerned with trying to find a man at all. They are all either "straight," whores, not into me, or all three. I feel like they are way too much trouble, not worth the effort, and at the end of the day, it's not worth me eventually hating him over. Working at a gay club in a college town certainly helps reiterate that for me. Everyone is always trying to hook up or keep up appearances. And everybody knows your business. And I don't want ANY of that mess! I'm just working on being "me" for a change. Working on my writing, my projects, working...I never want to be overconsumed by a man ever again. Oh, not to mention how the guy from the summer who ended up burning me works at the campus coffeeshop where I frequently hang out. Cowinkydink?! Don't think so! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Toadstool Posted November 7, 2006 Members Share Posted November 7, 2006 Bellcurve, it's often when you stop looking that the good ones just fall right into your lap (so to speak) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Kwing42 Posted November 7, 2006 Members Share Posted November 7, 2006 Why would a man...call men stupid? Not cool bro...we need to stick together! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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