He went to jail and there are still pending charges for him. Jail time trumps being yelled at. All Sami has done to Abby is yell at her and made her lose her entry level job. That's it! She's yelled at EJ, had him thrown in jail, made him lose his job, and sold off his company. She's done more to him bc he has more to lose. As Skin pointed out, Abby has nothing.

Until anything Sami does to that pig actually sticks longer than a couple of months (I really wish he'd actually died for real when she shot him), yes, I think Abby is paying far more than the rapist pig is.

Poor Abby chose to sleep with a MARRIED man

Too bad for her. Consequences happen, and Abby deserves them.

Sami isn't completely in the wrong[for once].

Abby already pulled this crap with Austin.

I.like Anne Milbauer, don't feel bad for her. She's lucky Sami didn't hurt her physically!

Instead, the other woman once again gets more of the vitriol and disrespect than the one who ACTUALLY cheated on her

How? Sami took away all of EJ's assets, threatened him with prison, took over his company and is selling off his most prized possessions while all he can do is watch. How is Abby getting the worse deal out of the two of them? EJ has lost more than Abby has and still has more to lose if Sami continues down the road she is on. How is EJ getting off lightly out of the two of them? Sami broke it down to Sonny very simply the other day, Abby at most lost her job (EJ did as well) and she got yelled at. EJ is facing life in prison, being destitute, and losing his children forever. How is Abby getting it worse out of the two of them?

As much as EJami fans love to claim Rafe neutered Sami (and I agree to an extent), nothing has been more pathetic than Sami trying to make everyone hate Abby because she knew they all knew pig EJ would screw her over, especially since Sami wasn't putting out for him.

You can't argue that Sami isn't in character though. Sami's been in character the entire time she's been with EJ (one could argue that they only time out of the last ten years that Sami has been Sami is when she is with him). You can't say that Sami isn't in character over trying to make Abby's life a living hell or that Sami doesn't have a past history of going after people because they have hurt her in some way. Everything Sami has done has fit her previous characterization. That can't be said about any other Sami relationship post 2005.

Until anything Sami does to that pig actually sticks longer than a couple of months (I really wish he'd actually died for real when she shot him), yes, I think Abby is paying far more than the rapist pig is.

This is an irrational request, as Abby herself probably won't have any long term consequences to deal with from this storyline either. EJ, Sami and Abby will all be moving on from this.