My mother loves listening to "What's Love Got to Do with It?" and has for many years, the song that was my introduction to Tina. As time passed I realized I was more drawn to her '60s and '70s work, but I will always have a soft spot for that period of Tina that brought millions into her effortless coolness and vitality.
Tina was such a life force onstage, always putting on a show, that the more guarded woman of her interviews was one I did not expect. Yet I respect that woman, both women, more and more as I get older and I see just how much society and the media ridicules and fetishizes the abuse women face, especially black women. She talked about what Ike did to her, but she never expected sympathy, likely because she knew America well enough to realize how uncommon that sympathy would be.
Tina was as American as you can get, which is probably one of the reasons she left and didn't look back. She took all of the pain and fought hard for every opportunity, and somehow, she triumphed. Her story is the ultimate American story, yet also unique to her. When you look back at Tina of any era, there's no one like her. She changed her style to fit decades, but she never changed the essence of her. Even decked out in Conan cosplay for Mad Max, she was still Tina. She wore the clothes, and she looked damn good. Even now, when some artists talk about what an inspiration she was, they don't try to imitate her, because you can't.
Tina was also so cool and sexy without putting on a big desperate effort. You think of how so many female artists today have to mutilate themselves, have to crawl on all fours, grind against men, women, and whatever nearby object in order to get some notice, and you look back on Tina who always had more class and a distance, even in moments of sexuality. Confidence was key. And Tina never let us forget that the show was just a show that people were lucky to be able to see. She wasn't begging and pleading. She demanded respect, and she got it.
I was watching a clip earlier today with Janis Joplin lavishing praise on Tina to Dick Cavett (who seemingly had no idea who Tina was), and I think of how lucky we were to have Tina for as long as we did. It's hard to believe she is gone, but what she gave us will never leave.