But they weren't. Not if the "victim" him or herself SAYS it wasn't rape. That's the definitive answer. You can't argue that. These are FACTS.

Ethan was not raped, and I demand that his name be cleared from the list. It's all about justice and accuracy, and that's something this list, while well-intentioned, does not have as long as Ethan's name appears.

That's like saying if Fancy said the peeping Tom didn't rape her, then he didn't. It's ridiculous.

Ethan can't even see that his wife has been keeping a secret that is obvious for four years. I doubt he would know whether he was raped or not.

There's really no point in debating it, since I'm not taking it off the list.

I respect you, Hogan, but sorry, you're taking the wrong side in this debate.

Once again, people, if the supposed VICTIM doesn't even say it's rape, it's-NOT-rape!

Since when was that EVER a justification or excuse for rape?! A date-rape victim may not be able to remember being drugged and raped, but guess what? It's still RAPE!

Hey JSF and Rion,

Um...no.

If that isn't rape to you, then subtract that from my total when the list is done, as I have already said.

Anymore?

I'm not satisfied with just 'subtracting' from the total. That's not fair. Ethan's name may be on the list as being "raped" but Theresa's reputation is at stake -- and that's truly unfortunate since she did NOT rape Ethan.

FOR THE UMPTEENTH TIME, if the would be/could be rape "victim" himself says he wasn't raped, HE-WAS-NOT-RAPED.

How is that wrong? It just makes sense. After all, the cops haven't charged Theresa with rape. Ethan never said it was rape. He never alerted the cops.

And in court, those are called "facts."

Therefore, there was no rape. There are no "facts" that prove he was raped.

We saw him get raped.

I'm not satisfied with just 'subtracting' from the total. That's not fair. Ethan's name may be on the list as being "raped" but Theresa's reputation is at stake -- and that's truly unfortunate since she did NOT rape Ethan.

FOR THE UMPTEENTH TIME, if the would be/could be rape "victim" himself says he wasn't raped, HE-WAS-NOT-RAPED.

How is that wrong? It just makes sense. After all, the cops haven't charged Theresa with rape. Ethan never said it was rape. He never alerted the cops.

And in court, those are called "facts."

Therefore, there was no rape. There are no "facts" that prove he was raped.

Do you have any idea how many men are raped but are too ashamed to report it? Thousands. The fact that Ethan never had Theresa brought up on charges means nothing.

And if Theresa's reputation is all you're worried about, then...I really don't even know what to tell you...

Exactly.

The fact that Ethan said he wasn't raped is proof enough that he wasn't raped!

Exactly.

The fact that Ethan said he wasn't raped is proof enough that he wasn't raped!

Oh, lord.

*Resisting urge to bash head in out of insanity*

Rion and JSF, I don't know what else to say. I saw Theresa plan a premeditated rape and rape him. And then I saw it re-written months later. He is staying on the list. You can carry on, if you want, but it's not changing.

You guys are kidding me, right? Ethan is not "scared" of Theresa. She didn't terrorize him. This is NOT like what millions of women do to men who hate their guts. Theresa didn't terrorize EThan. He's not scared of her. He's not "afraid" to report this non-crime. He said it himself: he KNEW it was her and they made love. Now, did she ATTEMPT rape? Well, that could be argued. But remember: rape means there was no consent, and Ethan HIMSELF said there was consent. That means, NO RAPE!!!!

Rion and JSF, I don't know what else to say. I saw Theresa plan a premeditated rape and rape him. And then I saw it re-written months later. He is staying on the list. You can carry on, if you want, but it's not changing.

We'll agree this far, King: Theresa ATTEMPTED to rape Ethan, by legal standards. Was Ethan raped? NO. He said he consented. We didn't know that until months later. That's all it amounts to; even if it was a rewriting, Ethan's consent means it wasn't rape.

I don't know why people insist on calling it rape and completely contradicting what happened on air. That's like inventing a whole crazy storyline with Kay giving birth to a dragon IT DIDN'T HAPPEN!!!!!!

You guys are kidding me, right? Ethan is not "scared" of Theresa. She didn't terrorize him. This is NOT like what millions of women do to men who hate their guts. Theresa didn't terrorize EThan. He's not scared of her. He's not "afraid" to report this non-crime. He said it himself: he KNEW it was her and they made love. Now, did she ATTEMPT rape? Well, that could be argued. But remember: rape means there was no consent, and Ethan HIMSELF said there was consent. That means, NO RAPE!!!!

No one said he was scared of her (although, he probably should be, Fatal Attraction, anyone?). Anyway, like King said, we all saw Theresa plan and carry out rape. End of story, and hopefully, end of discussion.

I watched Ethan get raped. He thought it was Gwen. JER, suprise suprise, re-wrote it! Theresa raped him! Plain and simple!

We'll agree this far, King: Theresa ATTEMPTED to rape Ethan, by legal standards. Was Ethan raped? NO. He said he consented. We didn't know that until months later. That's all it amounts to; even if it was a rewriting, Ethan's consent means it wasn't rape.

Except for one thing. Ethan NEVER consented! He never once told Theresa it was alright for her to have sex with him while she drugged his champagne. Denying it was rape is NOT the same as consent.