Creepy experience I had the other night...

[KLN]

I went to a guy's house the other night, a former co-worker of mine. Physically, he's pretty cute, but his personality was creeping me out a bit... his interests were odd, he does lots of drugs... so when he tried to have sex with me, I turned him down. He didn't want to take no for an answer and kept pushing and pushing the issue, to the point that it was starting to become a little creepy... especially when it got to the point that he was pretty much laying on top of me. He even stuck his hand down his pants and started getting off in front of me, and I really didn't know how to respond, so I just asked him to give me a tour of his place before I left.

That's when he asked me if I wanted to see his basement, because it was so large. Welcoming any opportunity to get out of that situation, I was like, "sure." Bad move. Once we got down to the basement, I think he was trying to scare me into having sex with him. He started saying things like, "See? I could do anything down here and nobody would see or hear a thing, and I could hide anything down here, too.... I should test that theory right now." Uh... okay. Then he shot me this crazy, creepy look... like something you'd see in a Hannibal Lector movie. Part of me wanted to fake a laugh, hoping it was just a joke. But it made the hair on the back of my neck stand up, and I was insanely creeped out, and he knew it.

At that point, I was tired of being nice. I told him that we should go back upstairs to his bed... which he loved hearing. Once we got out of the basement, he said that he had to use the bathroom first. Meanwhile, as he was taking care of business in the bathroom, I grabbed my coat and ran out, LoL!

The bad thing is, I forgot to grab my movie that I was letting him borrow (Labyrinth). He left a message on my machine today, he sounded rather annoyed, and told me he'd be by sometime soon to bring back the movie I let him borrow and said we'd have to hang out again sometime. What the hell?!

So, needless to say, I'm not looking forward to seeing or hearing from him again. I would call and tell him just to keep the movie, but I'm afraid he'd get pissed and turn into a big psycho stalker.

What should I do?

[Ryan]

That's scary dude. You should just let him keep the movie.

[Sweet_VeeVee24]

Let him have the movie. He sounds very off, and the last thing you need is to have another face-to-face encounter with him.

[R!ck]

Let him keep the movie love, I'll send you mine LOL

[Drew]

Kill him. Hide him in the basement.

[King]

Oh my god! KENNY!

You should start masturbating! Well, more often! It ain't worth your life.

[KLN]

RoFL!

[Actor87]

I like Drew's suggestion. After all..."nobody would know"! Moo-AHAHAHA! LOL!

Naw, I'd just tell him some bogus errand that you have to run and have him drop it off in your mailbox or on your doorstep or something.

Then again, you could ask a girl friend to get it from him. Say you're sick or something and say you're sending your female friend over there!

[Drew]

could say you have an STD. "But I 'care' enough to tell you first."

[crc]

I'm twisted enough to have suggested that, but that's so wrong. LOL! We can't mess up Kenny's reputation now.

Does this guy already know where you live? If not, I'd just tell him to keep the movie and avoid contact with him. If he insists on returning the movie, arrange to meet him at a very public place or if he already knows where you live, make sure you have some people over your house when he's suppose to stop by. After that's dealt with, caller ID is your friend.

[PMac]

Yeah, creepy is right! Let him have the movie....we'll all chip in and get you a new one! If he insists on returning it (and he already knows where you live), be sure and have a few friends over when he gets there, and tell him you all were just on your way out.

[darraholic]

That's some scary [!@#$%^&*]. YOu should of locked him up in his basement like your idol Kristen would of done.

[King]

[Rhonda37138]

Whatever happened with this? Has he tried to return the movie? I understand how uncomfortable you must have been. A few years ago, a cop that answered the call when a friend had an emergency showed up at my apartment the day after claiming he was just checking on me and my friend. I lived alone, and although he was very nice and seemed genuinely concerned on the first visit, he continued to stop by and started making sexual remarks/gestures (like standing there with a *bulge* saying "can you tell?"- while in his uniform no less!). Being a divorced single lady, I actually became very scared and threatened by his behavior. I stopped answering the door when I realized what he was after, but remember being so terrified. I was even scared to report him because he'd been on the force for 15 yrs and could probably get away with murder. Fortunately, my boyfriend was over one time when he just "dropped by" and made it clear to the cop that his visits weren't welcomed and he would be reported if it happened again. I saw him downtown recently and he actually remembered my name. Creepy. Ewwwwww....

[KLN]

Oh, wow. What a crazy story! LoL

Fortunately, he hasn't tried to return the movie and I haven't heard from him. Then again, I blocked him on all of my online instant messengers, LoL. He hasn't called, either. It looks like I'm home free... so far.