Have you ever randomly had someone stop being friends with you?

[WillenFan21]

I am just curious if this has happend to anyone else besides me. I know I probably should not let it bother me since the person was an online friend but the fact that this person NEVER told me they had a problem with me it upsets me. I thought everything was fine between us we talked almost everyday and I was there for her when she needed someone to talk to. Then out of no where she has me blocked and I read in her blog that she thinks I was trying to sabatoge her friendship with someone. She didnt even tell me she felt that way, she never tried to talk to me about it, she just ends it like that. I could careless if she was friends with that person. More power to her it doesnt bother me. Its just I dont know. All those times we talked I was never led to believe she had no problem with me. Talk about blind siding you out of no where.

Has anyone ever had an expierence like this before? Maybe the person wasnt a good friend to me to begin with.

-Mar-

[bellcurve]

Hmmm...A few times. Then, I end up being rude to them everytime I see them and all is balanced.

[Bright Eyes]

no but im young, gots lots of time for that to happen to me

[DrewH]

Don't worry about it, Mar. Just keep doing your thing. This friend obviously was never a real friend and the friendship meant nothing. Don't linger on it. Move on and live your life with no worries.

[WillenFan21]

Thanks Drew. I really shouldnt let it bother me. I have other friends like you to talk to.

[Tishy]

Yep. In high school one girl just stopped being friends with me and made my life hell. Turns out she was jealous because I was 18 and she was 17 and I could sign myself into school whenever I wanted. So every week I went out to breakfast, yet I still made the honor roll which she never did.

As I grew older, I did drift apart from people, just because you all end up having different lives. You move, you find your life partner (or partners) and find new sets of friends. I do remain close to my best friends. They are the ones I can call after six months and can pick up like we talked the day before.

Have no idea if that helps, but I tried

[WillenFan21]

Yeah it does. I just need to move the eff on and get over it already. I had some bad expierences in school too. I think people were jealous becuase teachers would always help me after school and help me study for tests. Plus I had 2 cousins who worked in the school, and was always given extra time on my tests to get them done. I had a couple people who stuck up for me.

This one time I got so pissed off at this one girl because she would always get my best friend mad at me. Well I wanted to sit by my best friend at lunch and this [!@#$%^&*] sat beside her so I had about enough and chucked my lunch tray at her. It was really funny because then this other girl threw apple sauce on my head and got a dentention yet I got nothing!

I guess because I was bullied so much in school that even if an online friend gets upset with me I dwell on it for days.

[JinkiesP]

Just a bit of advice. Its best to get over it, move on and quit obessing.

[WillenFan21]

I'm not obsessing over it.

[Soapsuds]

For a minute there I thought you were talking about a guy on this board. But after reading the word her I knew it wasnt. The best thing to do is move on.

[KLN]

I've never had someone randomly stop being friends with me -- but I've done it to others a few times, LoL

It's hard to believe that anyone would just stop being friends with someone for absolutely no reason, though. Are you sure you didn't do anything... maybe a misunderstanding, something? There's two sides to every story, however fortunate or unfortunate that may be.

[JinkiesP]

Oh No?

Then you make a whole new thread about it. If your friend is an online friend then I think you made this thread just to stir up trouble and get sympathy like you are so famously known for on PGP. So whatever did happen to that poor dog?

[Ryan]

First off, I think it's incredibly rude to post a topic like this on SON, especially since the person you're referring to is a member here.

Secondly, did you ever consider that this person didn't want to talk to you? Maybe this person didn't tell you that you upset her because she didn't want to hurt your feelings and the only way to keep from doing so was to block you. Or maybe this person felt she was being manipulated or maybe this person was tired of hearing you complain about whatever it was you were. Sometimes people see exactly what another is trying to do and though you may not have thought you did anything wrong, she thought you did. It's her right to block who she wants. Instead of e-mailing this person to try and deal with it privately, you create a public thread about it on a board where she is a member of.....that's not cool.

[WTGH]

LMFAO!

I remember that story....

[Ryan]

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