He told me he never wants to marry again. I wasn't looking for marriage. I love him, but if the relationship is so dead-ended as that, it sorta told me where I stand in scheme of things. I told him "bu-bye" but now I'm hurting really bad. I know it was the right thing, though.

Edited January 11, 200718 yr by Rhonda37138

I'm sure you're better off. Anyway, I hope you feel better!

Thanks Hogan.

I think that you'll be better off in the long run. I know its hard going through breakups but you'll make it through just fine.

Thanks Marilyn. I can't stop crying.

Sounds like you're waaaaay better off.

Break out some bubble and Sex and the City.

I can't stop crying.

Whoever this person is, it sounds like he's not even worth it, although I understand you're hurt. When you find the right person though, you'll be so happy this happened (and possible take comfort in the fact that this person might be alone for the rest of their life ). I say just do whatever makes you feel good right now.

Awwww I'm sorry, But, you'll get through it!

I'm sure this guy doesn't know what he's missing. Don't blame yourself. The right man will come along, someone worthy of you.

I know it's tough...I am still getting over the breaking up with my girlfriend about a year and a half ago. But you have to take things one day and a time.

Best of luck to you.

I'm sure this guy doesn't know what he's missing. Don't blame yourself. The right man will come along, someone worthy of you.

I know it's tough...I am still getting over the breaking up with my girlfriend about a year and a half ago. But you have to take things one day and a time.

Best of luck to you.

Thanks everyone so much for your kind words and support. This is a nice board. I'm feeling better about things now. Although it's still an adjustment (like finding other things to do with my evenings), I realize this is for the best. Thanks again!

Thanks everyone so much for your kind words and support. This is a nice board. I'm feeling better about things now. Although it's still an adjustment (like finding other things to do with my evenings), I realize this is for the best. Thanks again!

You're very welcome. Just hang in there and things will get better. Glad to hear you're feeling better.

sorry for you !!!!!

Time will help. Take some time to grieve, but not too much. Then get out and start looking when you feel ready. It sucks breaking up in any relationship and I hope you have a good support system. Have fun posting on here, I know I do. There are lots of wonderful people here who make it fun so whenever you feel bad, most likely there is someone on here who will make it better. Go out with your friends and you will find the right guy who will want to marry you and share the same goals as you. He is out there!