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You're probably absolutely right, I just noticed that was slightly different. The only thing I found a little odd was the mom's quote about open communication vs. Kenya saying the mom would never speak to her. Either way, I do feel sorry for Kenya having to feel that pain. I may not like her, but I wouldn't wish that kind of hurt on anyone. Whether she's fudging the details or not, the bottom line is that she has no relationship with her mother and that's obviously a source of pain on some level for her, and that sucks. I sincerely hope she finds peace in that regard and can learn to simply value the love she DID have and move on from the loss. I know that's way easier said than done, but I hope she can achieve that. At the end of the day, that's a lot to carry around. She did acknowledge on Twitter awhile ago that her mother did reach out to her after she won Miss. USA but claims she felt it was disingenuous and she didn't reply out of bitterness on her part, and rightfully so. Why would Kenya reach out to her when her mom is only doing it (at that time) b/c she was at an all time high and getting a lot of exposure? It is gonna be hard for her to find peace but it has to be done. I think I am sympathetic with her b/c her story is somewhat similar to mine. Instead, mine is neglect from my father, who'd pop in and out and constantly play the victim when I'd call him out on him being absentee. It's taken me a long time to let it go but I feel like I am almost there. It does also make me hesitant to start new relationships with people b/c I will always question if I can trust and depend on them. Childhood neglect is a bitch.... I feel empathetic towards Kenya bc Ive witness this happen with my cousin who's mother dropped her on her paternal grandmother's (mine as well) doorstep less than a week old and pretty much abandoned her. My cousin has kids now as well and has gotten peace bc she sees her mother at Thanksgiving but it took over 25 years to get to that point. Its hurtful. Im feeling like Aunt Lori bc my younger sister and my father do not talk and nothing Ive been able to do has done any help to mend those fences. My other sister saw her father for the first time in about 30 years this weekend and no words were exchanged . Its sad all around but I feel for Kenya's family issues bc they feel so familiar to me

I thought so at first but Phaedra went into business with Kenya to release Donkey Booty. She had a seperate video with Todd which was about maternity fitness. I had no idea that one existed and its bc it never came out. I was like why is Phaedra lying when she said she gave birth the next day when she looked relatively slim in that tight green workout outfit. Different video

Apollo: "I'll be coming home soon" Yea if you consider 8 years soon.... I think Kim is doing her son a disservice trying to shield him from the realities of racism. It exists and he is old enough to understand it. He is going to be in for a world of shock. I also agree with Sheree in that it was rude of her to leave the event. If she couldnt attend bc of prior engagement, then she should have just said so and not come. Of course Porsha would use thi oppurtunity to get her thot on. LMAO at shady Bravo playing the Underground Railroad clip at this historical black event. Nene's back. Ugh. Cynthia is ALREADY flip flopping I actually get where Lori is coming from when it comes to Kenya. I feel for Kenya in that she will never get closure but at this point it might be best to drop her mother and move on. Love the new talking heads that debuted tonight. Sheree and Cynthia look great. Kim's was alright too POTOMAC LOVED it! What a great intro. I have to say I enjoyed all the women. Good chemistry and good drama. ATL is to the OC as Potomac is to BH. I love that this is about black women with actual money and class. Karen is so the Lisa Vanderpump of the group. I liked her enough but that could easily change bc her hea is a bit too big with her queen status Cherisse is a bit too bougie but funny at the same time. Favorites were Gizelle and Katie. Katie reminded me of Stacey Dash though. Robyn, honestly I would have thought she were white had she not mentioned she were biracial. Her ex husband is fine Didnt expect to see so many of the women divorced. Good mix though of married, divorced and dating Is that Ashley from the previews going to be a wife? I hope so bc 5 women seems so small now when we are so used to 6 and 7 being the norm What is that on her head? She should have been checking that wigThese next gifs could have easily been taglines These chicks stay yelling about etiquette bc she wasnt a flip flopper, at least I didnt think she was. She was Nene's friend and then she wasnt. She flipped; she didnt flop. Thts kind of ironic coming from you bc the ultimate flip flopper on this show is and always has been Nene. Good look back at her relationship with Kim from Season 1 to 5, to heck even now. She's flip flopped with her. Cynthia aint got nothing on those two. By the very nature of how Nene is back on the show, she is being a flip flopper as well bc she is the one that gave Cynthia the cold shoulder and ended their friendship but is now back wanting to be friends.. Flip flop And the reason Im saying Cynthia is flip flopping is bc thats exactly what she did. One minute she says Kenya is her girl and when Nene calls her out on that, she takes it back and minimizes her friendship. If Kenya is your girl, then stand in your truth and own it. Dont deny and back peddle bc Linethia doesnt like it and is back to be your friend. Nene is delusional. She was implying that she and Cynthia fell out bc of Kenya trying to tear them apart. No, your issues with Cynthia are independent of Kenya. Its also ironic bc thats exactly what Nene is doing here; intentionally trying to come between Cynthia and Kenya

bc Kenya is about to make her relevant? Kenya will have her be like

Only thing Porsha has to offer in the second half is being a thotWOW at Cynthia. Really girl? I hope this preview is misleading but no bueno on her possibly trading in Kenya for NeneI see even Dwight is back. Can we get Ms Lawrence too?

Vanderpump dissappointed me. Im firmly on Eileen's side with their falling out Im no Erika fan but I dont like how judgemental some of the women are and didnt like how Bethenny was coming for her. That was some passive aggressive mess and she was very condescending. I need someone to tell her ass off. She was NOT needed on BH

Jeffrey is so dumb The thirst was real with Mimi from AMC I hate how Hannah is acting all bran new. Bitch, you was a hoe How the hell is Q still alive?

the preview for the rest of the season looked good! Im actually excited for Stassi's return

"A new baby?" then we get a shot of old ass Janet....I CANT! Surprisingly I will be in Melbourne at this time. Should be interesting!

Thotlandia screaming at her pregnant sister was disgusting. Its obvious she is jealous of her pregnancy and holds resentment. Im glad she at least acknowledged that and tried to make things up. Porsha is about to be 35 so if she wants a baby she needs to hop to it. Her thot lifestyle isnt conducive to raising a child so she needs to get her priorities straight I lived for Kenya's material and Im glad this episode shed more light into her childhood and upbringing. I dont know what she expected though coming with a tv crew to her mother's house bc of course nothing would get resolved there but I did like seeing her dad's side of the family Phaedra doesnt like the workout video bc of polkadots and doesnt want to put it out? She is so full of sh-t. You know this is her excuse so she doesnt have to pay. And she continues to shade Todd's jobs in her talking heads. What a terrible friend Yay to Joyce being back! I needed her to go in on Phaedra but I did like the passive aggressive threats I totally did not realize Kim wasnt in the episode till I saw her in the previews. LMAO Bravo seems to be cutting her out of the show bc ever since the trip where she whined about not wanting to be there, her airtime has reduced drastically Ugh to Nene being back. Such a good vibe going till her face appeared on my screen

I hope they do more. That first episode was too much

OMG, I just cant

Alicia Minshew shot a TV pilot @AllMyDaysatGH ALL MY CHILDREN star Alicia Minshew (Kendall) is starring in the new television pilot HOLIDAY SHELTER!

NJ did that with season 3 and 4. They were filming season 4 during the season 3 reunion. There was no break. S4 could have just been an extension of S3 but then that would have made it too many episodes

@Mr. Vixen Nene's filmed her talking head segments

iKON's growing on me too but really for the three members Ive mentioned. I cant get into the other 4. 2PM's upcoming comeback is bittersweet. Its reported it'll be their last before members start getting enlisted Looking forward to 4Minute as the last rumor was fall and that didnt pan out Have you listened to SHINee's album? Im really digging it. Wishful Thinking is probably my favorite song

its from her breast and should look like this its obviously covered in blood but Im not sure if there is discoloration after years of being in use

I was going to write something similar but you said it better. Todd is in the right but Kandi's too scared to go right to Phaedra so she sends Don Subway and everybody else to go after weak link and hothead Porsha. Kandi better be ready to confront Phaedra at Reunion, though. After what Phae said on her VT about Todd, I would imagine the gloves are off -- IF Kandi plucks up the courage. She seems to prefer stirring the pot and then stepping out of the way. But Phaedra is... I don't think 'shady' is a strong enough word. Phaedra is a charlatan and a con-artist. She's in Apollo's mess right up to her neck. We don't hear anymore about her budding mortuary business -- I'm assuming that was one portal by which she has used to defraud people. Her parent's ministry may well be another route. When Apollo ran around the house the day he was meant to turn himself in, the implied threat that Phaedra better not piss him off (or he'll spill some tea) was evident. I think that's why Phaedra has not filed for divorce -- yet. It is a real house of cards. I feel sorry for the two babies who are as sweet and adorable as can be. One thing I have to say, Phaedra clearly adores Ayden -- she said herself he has all her best characteristics. Kandi's mother has said worse about Todd. His father was a pimp, Todd was fooling around with Carmen, etc. Even Don Juanita had chit to say. Kandie needs to STFU because she's passive/aggressive and only wants to be bothered with those who kiss her ass. She's an idiot this season! What does Mama Joyce have to do with this though? All you did is point out consistent behavior from her in that Kandi doesnt like confrontation which is why she lets her mother walk all over her. When she has tried to confront Joyce, she ends up crying and backing down. When she tried to confront Phaedra earlier this season, she cried and back down. Kandi is weak and has never been one to face her problems head on. She'll let it build up and/or have others deal with it for her

I really hope editing is at play here bc did anyone else notice that right before surgery, Yolanda thought to only call one child? Gigi of course. Anwar and Bella be damned Yolanda's storyline. Gross and why is this nurse taking pictures?

Not to defend Kandi but I think its bc Todd is the injured party. There is no denying that Phaedra is in the wrong and Todd is the victim here and Phaedra's lies and inability to "recount the truth" is whats been aggravating. Kandi is telling the truth about the situation and its that Phaedra owes money. Phaedra is putting her own spin on it, throwing shade and acting like Todd is in the wrong for coming for her whats owed him bc she's a single mother dealing with a whole lot of stuff. If Phaedra were upfront, honest and actually about correcting her wrong, I dont think Kandi would have as much of an issue about it Unfortunately though Kandi is taking out her frustrations regarding Phaedra out on Porsha when she has nothing to do with this. Kandi should be mad at Phaedra and should express that to Phaedra. She is scared of confrontation which is why her team steps in to do with for her but even they arent going after the snake's head

"They went in on Thotlandia and I was alright with that"

Kenya's storyline isnt about having issues with her father. Its about her issues with her mother. She and her father worked out their problems years ago and she obviously gets along fine with him and has a relationship with him. Nene doesnt have that with hers. And FYI, this isnt her father's first appearance on the show. He appeared in season 6, and then once again, her focus was on her lack of relationship with her mother. This pre-dates Nene saying they had parental issues at the reunion so try gain. Kenya's issues with her mother are real and have been something she struggled with all her life. It came up 23 years ago when she was in the running for Miss USA and she shared that with us when she was cast on this show years ago. Nene has NOTHING to do with that

Bingo! That is exactly what it was. Kenya is so desperate and delusional that she stole Nene's story from an earlier season. Oh yes! Because no one on this show can have familial issues but Nene. IKR? WTF?!? Kenya's issues have been documented going back to 1993 before she won Miss USA. That pre-dates anyone on here knowing who the hell Nene was by a good 15 years

I'm just referencing the conversation here several months ago. You don't remember that? Folks thought Phaedra s/b gone because she is no longer married. Wanted Porsha gone for that reason too, but stan for delusional asexual Kenya. Just sayin... No I dont. Show me the reciepts! I dont beleive thats quite how things went but okay. FYI, Phaedra is still married. Seperated, but legally still married. Ive wanted both gone but not bc of their marital status