Maxim

Listen... We all watched when Zende raped Luna... YES. Raped. He had sex with her when she was drugged, high, under the influence, say it how you want it. It's not possible to give consent under the influence. That's LAW. And we had multiple scenes before that where she gave him somewhat of a cold shoulder. THEN... Bradley rewrote what we all SAW... months later. Or do you think Luna was fake-playing being raped while crying alone in her room... (before the horrible idiotic rewrite.) We all saw her distraught even when she was just alone. Forgive me, but psycho manipulators don't continue playing the role when nobody is watchin... They don't cry all alone, because they are playing being raped. This is ludicrous. SO... IT was A rape. The re-write doesn't change that fact at all. Tomorrow Bradley may write in that Luna is an AI robot for all we know. But we all saw... what we saw. And the consensus of most members has always been that it was a rape. P.S And even if someone is hypothetically PLAYING being high... to make someone think they are under the influence, that doesn't change the fact that the rapist decided to do it, thinking she is under. Not changing that fact. https://utulsa.edu/student-life/sexual-violence-prevention-education/alcohol-consent/ Yes means yes. Consent is not the absence of a no. It is the presence of a clear, affirmative, expression of interest, desire, and wants. Consent involves all parties, with each person setting their boundaries or sharing their desires. Consent is respectful, mutual decision-making. Drugs and alcohol impact decision-making and blur consent. When drugs and alcohol are involved, clear consent cannot be obtained. An intoxicated person cannot give consent. Consent needs to be clear. Consent is more than not hearing the word “no.” A partner saying nothing is not the same as a partner saying “yes.” Don’t rely on body language, past sexual interactions, or any other nonverbal cues. Never assume you have consent. Always be sure you have consent by asking.

One of the reasons I couldn't continue watching this show... when I tried this year... was the Sonny character and the actor playing it. Unbearable to me. Just not my cup of tea... I've never bothered to share this anywhere, since... who cares in the end. People like what they like and people don't like what they don't like. Even the voice is like hearing nails on chalkboard to me, honestly. I hope nobody gets offended. Just... every time he's in a scene... it's like this depressing vibe comes over and not in a good way.

Social media made all of us... Crazy.

When I'm made to take care of someone I don't like....

+1. I agree 100 percent. My analysis of the situation is pretty identical. This is the way! I wish you and you family prosperity. All of us have to fight and keep our heads up high. They want us to feel defeated, but I won't give them this satisfaction. NEVER.

Sometimes you have to mourn the loss of people who are still living, but not part of your life anymore... and when you're done mourning... you can re-heat some nice yummy lentils soup and have a ball. ❤️

Some days all I can do is... twirl.

Before my gin and tonic kicks in.

Brooke Logan always gives birth to her illegitimate spawns in the Big Bear cabin. That's all I can contribute to this topic... And I think it's a lot. ❤️❤️❤️😂😂😂

can't this loop be like 24 hours 1 hour is not enough for me

This should be in The louvre

Every time you say Taylee, I laugh. 🤣

God I love her. https://www.marieclaire.com/celebrity/madonna-eats-anti-trump-cake/

When my husband comes home without the dominos pizza I ordered for him to pick up on the way home. honor.mp4

Me on 5 gins.

honor.mp4 I can't stop laughing at Brooke and Ridge's scenes these past few episodes. I even re-watched Brooke screaming - HONOR ME to Ridge couple of times. For some reason the effect is not dramatic, but comedic. 🤣

This should be in the Louvre...

A funny topic idea I just got... A place where we can share moments where we embarrassed ourselves... did something foolish or stupid without realizing or being able to control ourselves... Something to light up the mood. We are all human after all. Let me start with what I did just yesterday. I saw this woman I hadn't seen for a long time coming towards me on the sidewalk... Get this... I didn't know she had some kind of dental fake-teeth procedure done... You know how these people make their teeth look SUPER fake... so white... that it looks absurd. Veneers. I think that's what it's called. I've never even had a cavity in my life, so I don't know anything about these things and don't care. (Lucky genes) So I see her and she comes near me... but I don't and can't expect... what I'll see when she opens her mouth and smiles at me with these huge white scary teeth - the doctor that did them must be really inexperienced... or psychotic. So she... smiles... and I burst into uncontrollable laugh... that completely shocked her. I tried to control myself... but couldn't for some reason. I realized how rude I was acting... but just couldn't stop laughing... And of course tried to lie about a reason of why I was laughing... but she quickly got what was happening... and closed that scary smile. A box of shame moment for sure.

I hate when people mock / joke around straight men with talking about them like they are going to be kissing or hooking up... or joking that they've already done it... even if it's just made to sound like some innocent joke. I feel it's borderline homophobic... And... like to be gay is something a straight man can just laugh about... like we are lower than them, but they are acting like they don't mind... So I should be okay with it? And I've seen even people who claim to be very tolerant/supporting gay people... act like this... when in big groups/drunk. I really don't want to hear someone encourage or talk about another straight man kissing another straight man like it's some kind of a joke. THIS IS MY LIFE. IT's not a joke to me. I don't want to see your f-cking face smiling and laughing when it's quite clear these men are NOT gay and they are just mocking gay-relationships, without even realizing it... I get triggered as [!@#$%^&*]. I don't like it. Maybe it's just me... but that's IT. I also don't like straight women who refer to me... with MY GAY best friend Maxim. YEY! YEY! YEY! Not-yey! B-tch, stop referring to me BY MY sexuality and tagging me with it in front of people who I DON'T EVEN KNOW. This has happened so many times... I can't count. I don't need people to see me like I'm some kind of an accessory to a straight woman... This is like if I was introducing her... to someone and saying - This is my straight best friend Elena... for example. Absurd. I'm not a bag... a pair of sunglasses... or even A DOG. I'm a f-cking human being. It's not cute. It doesn't make me feel included. NOT AT ALL. Again... maybe some people don't mind. I get horribly irritated. And I remember this one time... when a guy... with his girlfriend in the same room!!!... at a home party... asked me if I would like him to kiss me... Because he had never kissed a man... he wanted to see how he would feel (he knew I was gay from the conversation before that) and he was sure his girlfriend would just laugh. What I responded - I told him, first - I don't kiss drunk men I've met 30 minutes ago... and second... you are not my type, so I'm sorry, but... NO. And also... just because I'm gay, that doesn't mean... every man that wants to kiss me... can kiss me. No, no, no, mister. Go and try your experiments with someone else. He acted like I stole his ice cream. He was sooo sure I would do it... I saw that look in the eyes. Well. NO.

The negative of having an extremely funny (borderline comedian) husband... is that I have to try so hard... to come up with something FUNNIER than him. It's my goal of life... but deep inside I know I will never even come close. 🤣

OMG, he should definitely be RJ's secret boyfriend... that becomes not so secret anymore. It's time this show stop being so passively-homophobic.